Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

[mtngirl79]

OK what are you thinking when you post on NEXTDOOR asking about good divorce lawyers? Might as well put a big sign in your front yard saying "available for rebound sex!!"

Does anyone actually use their real name on nextdoor?

[iceman]

just tried to sign up for nextdoor to see what it is but it's way too intrusive for me, i'm not giving my name, address and cell number because curiousity.

[KQ]

just tried to sign up for nextdoor to see what it is but it's way too intrusive for me, i'm not giving my name, address and cell number because curiousity.

and what are you going to say when your wife sees your internet history?

[XXX-er]

OK what are you thinking when you post on NEXTDOOR asking about good divorce lawyers? Might as well put a big sign in your front yard saying "available for rebound sex!!"

I went with the jewish lawyer theory and they were not wrong

It was probably combative to use the advice they gave ... tell her to fuck off

but what can one expect in the initial 1/hr consult ?

i think it was 30$

[MakersTeleMark]

Bros before hoes.

[CascadeLuke]

Be ready for the exclusivity chat in the Caribbean- she’s gonna drop it on ya - once you’ve done-it every which way and spent consecutive overnights. It’s what they do.
NTTAWWT

[throwitaway9876]

Be ready for the exclusivity chat in the Caribbean- she’s gonna drop it on ya - once you’ve done-it every which way and spent consecutive overnights. It’s what they do.
NTTAWWT

Yeah was kinda thinking that may happen. I really like this girl. I also don't know if I'm all the way ready to be in a full on relationship. We've been on like three dates so far. Is that enough to know about commitment?

After this trip she is on the road for work for a week and then is headed on a girls trip to South America and I
I just scheduled a work trip to Sydney, so I won't see her for 3-4 weeks depending on how long I'm in Australia.

[CascadeLuke]

Well those are unusual post trip circumstances so maybe it will be delayed.. You’re doing a stand up job handling things btw. I know many who’d crack given your situation, possibly myself included. Be young - have fun

[Skidog]

Yeah was kinda thinking that may happen. I really like this girl. I also don't know if I'm all the way ready to be in a full on relationship. We've been on like three dates so far. Is that enough to know about commitment?

After this trip she is on the road for work for a week and then is headed on a girls trip to South America and I
I just scheduled a work trip to Sydney, so I won't see her for 3-4 weeks depending on how long I'm in Australia.

I think, personally, its about feeling. Its a decision only you can make....plenty of people have met and instantly fell in love, married, and died married. Could your judgement be clouded right now by your situation? Sure. Could you fuck this up? Sure. Whats to say you wait (some undetermined time) and don't fuck up anyway? I say go for it.....let your heart decide.

[oftpiste]

Three dates and you're even considering exclusivity? Dude, get to know the woman for god's sake.

As for the chat, maybe you initiate so you can start it in the right direction. "PNG, I think you're really great and gorgeous and I love boning you. I like you enough to think that maybe we have a future together. How would you feel about continuing to spend time together so we can really get to know each other and see if that's something we both are interested in?" or something like that.

You have to spend enough time together (science seems to think that's about three months) for the dopamine to slow down before you can really evaluate (without a hard-on) the possibility of taking it to another level.

[HD333]

evaluate (without a hard-on).

This.


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[Bunion 2020]

Yeah was kinda thinking that may happen. I really like this girl. I also don't know if I'm all the way ready to be in a full on relationship. We've been on like three dates so far. Is that enough to know about commitment?

No.

You just got out of a harsh situation and I will go out on a limb but this could be a part of your dealing with said situation.

[fastfred]

Three dates and you're even considering exclusivity? Dude, get to know the woman for god's sake.

As for the chat, maybe you initiate so you can start it in the right direction. "PNG, I think you're really great and gorgeous and I love boning you. I like you enough to think that maybe we have a future together. How would you feel about continuing to spend time together so we can really get to know each other and see if that's something we both are interested in?" or something like that.

You have to spend enough time together (science seems to think that's about three months) for the dopamine to slow down before you can really evaluate (without a hard-on) the possibility of taking it to another level.

pretty much some solid advice

I met this chick and thought she was the shit, shredding it, keeping up with the boys, was always getting after it, no kids, has money and a great job, free spirit, couldn't believe how "lucky" I was, by three months is was like fingernails on the chalk board. She was suppose to come up this weekend and we were going to hang out, bad habits are hard to quit. And her words, not mine: since she's a 'powder ho', she decided to stay in taos and then hit the san juans this weekend instead of scummit. Not sure if it was my loss or gain.

[sb]

You should date her for about twenty years or so, just to get to know her.

[SumJongGuy]

Does anyone actually use their real name on nextdoor?

Most people do around here,.. and include their address in their profiles.. that's the whole point, real people who are actually your neighbors.

[Conundrum]

Rub one out before having exclusivity talks with anyone at this stage. Clarity is a powerful thing.

[fastfred]

Rub one out before having exclusivity talks with anyone at this stage. Clarity is a powerful thing.

again more solid advice

[delco714]

again more solid advice

There's nothing worse then being pressured into exclusivity with someone you like, seems great, but have early uncertainty with.

[SumJongGuy]

Rub one out before having exclusivity talks with anyone at this stage. Clarity is a powerful thing.

[Danno]

Am I the only who thinks exclusive doesn't have to mean serious? Just that you're only seeing/screwing them.

If you dig her, and spend a weekend with her, you can become exclusive without any long term commitment. You're just committing not to seeing other people, not committing your life to each other

[Mustonen]

Am I the only who thinks exclusive doesn't have to mean serious? Just that you're only seeing/screwing them.

If you dig her, and spend a weekend with her, you can become exclusive without any long term commitment. You're just committing not to seeing other people, not committing your life to each other

Right?

“Hey, this is pretty good. Maybe it goes somewhere. Maybe not. But in the meantime I’d like to not get chlamydia and I’m guessing you feel the same.”

[sb]

chlymydia free pizza

[delco714]

Right?

“Hey, this is pretty good. Maybe it goes somewhere. Maybe not. But in the meantime I’d like to not get chlamydia and I’m guessing you feel the same.”

I feel like the quick to exclusive are also quick to serious.. If there's a happy medium, that would be perfect

[Cono Este]

So I had Starbucks with my ex today. Trying to find some closure.

She’s totally lost her marbles. Wanted to talk to see “if we had anything in common”, never mind the three yrs we spent together. I was baffled.

You know how when you breakup with someone and then they act like they just met you? Void of any emotion.

I don’t know why we do this to ourselves.


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[oftpiste]

Wanted to talk to see “if we had anything in common”, never mind the three yrs we spent together. I was baffled.

You know how when you breakup with someone and then they act like they just met you? Void of any emotion.
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try 30 yrs....