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[wyeaster]

Just shows how out of touch you are with the real world.

i know it's cool it's like we're brothers but mom loved me more!

[LHutz Esq]

Is that a yes or no?

Wage equality has nothing to do with financial responsibility between two people.

Coaching not new for me.

Actually, differential in wages is exact reason why most jurisdictions have spousal support legislation.

For example - we have spousal support guidelines here. Once entitlement is determined then- You make x she makes y marriage was z years long= higher earning partner pays $a to ex for b years.

Gender doesn't enter into it.

[4matic]

Gender doesn't enter into it.

Wage equality is a societal macro issue. Wage differential is between the two partners.

[exsparky]

rigged like the glass ceiling and 75 cents on the dollar?

If I could cut my labor costs by 25% I would hire whomever was willing to take take kind of cut. I'm not sure what kind of company would want to over pay for labor like that.

How many call centers are in India now?

This is a largely male board, I'm sure you can find a female board full of misandry with a female version of DD.

Marriage can be a scam... divorces can be a far more expensive scam.

[undertow2]

I have been paying my ex $1500/month for the past 5 years and have less than 15 months left and cannot wait when I no longer have to pay that bitch. She got her elementary ed degree that was paid for by her mom. Got out of school and she decided the teaching gig was not for her and decided to go back for her Occupational Therapy degree. I was working at the time and did not want to be saddled by school loans so I paid the $30,000 in school fees so when the I got bent over in court I wish some of these things were considered. And to boot she got the house and I had to rent for 3 years to save up enough money to live in a similar house she won in the divorce. Oh shit I forgot I had to pay 80% of her high powered attorney fees as well.

As my VP said to me "The reason divorce is so expensive is because it is worth it"!

[LHutz Esq]

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[LHutz Esq]

Wage equality is a societal macro issue. Wage differential is between the two partners.

wage equality is the aggregate of wage differentials - it's like math.

[undertow2]

wage equality is the aggregate of wage differentials - it's like math.

You are spot on... They took our assets and income and shoved them through a machine to come up with our payment/asset plan... The one shocking thing that came up was my ex works for the public school system and has a pension and the court system does not consider a pension in the same light as a 401K... My 401K was thrown into the machine, but they kept her pension out as it is viewed like social security...

[LHutz Esq]

You are spot on... They took our assets and income and shoved them through a machine to come up with our payment/asset plan... The one shocking thing that came up was my ex works for the public school system and has a pension and the court system does not consider a pension in the same light as a 401K... My 401K was thrown into the machine, but they kept her pension out as it is viewed like social security...

That is different here. The 401k ( RRSPs are similar here) and Pensions are both family assets. It is only the gain in either over the term of the r'ship that is split though and the pension splitting formula gets a bit complex, although it does make sense. Some, especially gov't and CN pensions can be very valuable and I find that because they are complicated some folks (and possibly their lawyers?) are very quick to give them up in the negotiations.

[Gcooker]

This doesn't apply to my marriage, fortunately, but figured it was appropriate for this thread...

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Hollleeeyyy Shit. This 100% applies to my failed marriage.

[mtngirl79]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

[that dude who did that thing]

You are spot on... They took our assets and income and shoved them through a machine to come up with our payment/asset plan... The one shocking thing that came up was my ex works for the public school system and has a pension and the court system does not consider a pension in the same light as a 401K... My 401K was thrown into the machine, but they kept her pension out as it is viewed like social security...

That is different here. The 401k ( RRSPs are similar here) and Pensions are both family assets. It is only the gain in either over the term of the r'ship that is split though and the pension splitting formula gets a bit complex, although it does make sense. Some, especially gov't and CN pensions can be very valuable and I find that because they are complicated some folks (and possibly their lawyers?) are very quick to give them up in the negotiations.

It is likely that Undertow is forgetting or may have simply been unaware of some issues. Or his lawyer was an idiot. There was a time when some public employee groups in the U.S. could opt out of social security. So some folks don't pay in to social security, don't get benefits out of social security, instead they are enrolled in a public pension system. In that case, and in some states, the pension is treated teh same as social security, and so both parties exclude their social security benefit, or its equivalent, from the property settlement. Most pensions and retirmenet vehicles including 401(k)'s and IRAs are included in the marital estate and subject to division.

Of course, the other possibility is that Undertow's lawyer just plain didn't know what he was doing and Undertow got screwed. There's plenty of lousy lawyers out there.

[AK47bp]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

You just compared your species to dogs.

Have some respect

[hatchgreenchile]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

[4matic]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

What about a satisfied man?

[mtngirl79]

What about a satisfied man?

He doesnt roam. At least that was what my mother and grandmother's were told.

[AK47bp]

The level of misogyny displayed in this thread is a pretty clear indicator of why so many of you dicks are divorced.

How often do you have consensual sex with your wife?

[DBdude]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

people have sex for a variety of reasons. and there is a very broad spectrum in sexuality. you really are pretty shallow

[gravitylover]

...you really are pretty shallow

Hahaha

[NW_SKIER]

How often do you have consensual sex with your wife?

Be careful. That's a trick question.

[Viva]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

Neither does a "satisfied" man. Tell us more about your relationships.

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[mtngirl79]

Neither does a "satisfied" man. Tell us more about your relationships.

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Like i said above... my mother and grandmothers were taught a satisfied man doesn't roam...

[El Chupacabra]

Like i said above... my mother and grandmothers were taught a satisfied man doesn't roam...

And we've come full circle back to the original topic:

Give him two arms to cling to,
And something warm to come to
When nights are cold and lonely
Stand by your man...

[TahoeJ]

You weren't satisfying your wife. A satisfied woman doesn't roam...

Dumbest post in this whole thread, which is saying something...

[mtngirl79]

Dumbest post in this whole thread, which is saying something...

Lol.