More Teacher/Student Sex

[Bunion 2020]

In the end, this is/was a 24 page thread spanning years with grown men, many who have children of their own, essentially fantasizing/fetishing sex with minors from people of a position of power. If the scenario was different (male teachers/male students or male teacher/female students) the thread wouldn’t exist. It’s a reflection of our culture.

Unfortunately I created thread drift. Which only diverted attention to the real embarrassment of this thread.

Dude, it is TGR and the PR, the bar for embarrassing is sky high.

Of course no one here would cheer for some male teacher was getting down with their students be the student male or female. It is similar to how many feel 2 guys having sex is kinda disgusting while 2 chicks is intriguing, it is probably a guy thing. The trigger for this blow up was a woman with an Onlyfans account who AFAIK never had sex with anyone.

As for Drag story time. I don't get it myself but I do believe that parents should be informed prior to and be able to opt their precious treasures out and if that is not done I can see why so many are pissed.

[riser4]

Dude, it is TGR and the PR, the bar for embarrassing is sky high.

Of course no one here would cheer for some male teacher was getting down with their students be the student male or female. It is similar to how many feel 2 guys having sex is kinda disgusting while 2 chicks is intriguing, it is probably a guy thing. The trigger for this blow up was a woman with an Onlyfans account who AFAIK never had sex with anyone.

As for Drag story time. I don't get it myself but I do believe that parents should be informed prior to and be able to opt their precious treasures out and if that is not done I can see why so many are pissed.

Sadly, the kids whose parents would opt them out are the ones who would probably get the most benefit from attending said drag show.

[Danno]

In the end, this is/was a 24 page thread spanning years with grown men, many who have children of their own, essentially fantasizing/fetishing sex with minors from people of a position of power. If the scenario was different (male teachers/male students or male teacher/female students) the thread wouldn’t exist. It’s a reflection of our culture.

Unfortunately I created thread drift. Which only diverted attention to the real embarrassment of this thread.

Believe it or not, most of us are capable of compartmentalizing. We can see a post about a teacher having sex with a student and make jokes, while also not condoning pedophilia or rape or whatever. Many of us remember being horny teens fantasizing about a hot teacher (or an imaginary hot teacher) and can laugh about a news story, without actually condoning the behavior of the real people in the news story or condoning the behavior of predatory teachers, female or male. People can also watch porn without wondering whether the woman on screen was abused as a child, or only doing porn because she came from a broken home, or whatever. As always, the reality of the people in any news story is different from commenting on the strangers in a news story. It's fine if you choose not to exercise that ability to compartmentalize here, but to act like people are approving of teachers preying on students because of this thread is silly.

[Mazderati]

Desantis et al. appreciate the outpouring of parental concern.

[riser4]

Believe it or not, most of us are capable of compartmentalizing. We can see a post about a teacher having sex with a student and make jokes, while also not condoning pedophilia or rape or whatever. Many of us remember being horny teens fantasizing about a hot teacher (or an imaginary hot teacher) and can laugh about a news story, without actually condoning the behavior of the real people in the news story or condoning the behavior of predatory teachers, female or male. People can also watch porn without wondering whether the woman on screen was abused as a child, or only doing porn because she came from a broken home, or whatever. As always, the reality of the people in any news story is different from commenting on the strangers in a news story. It's fine if you choose not to exercise that ability to compartmentalize here, but to act like people are approving of teachers preying on students because of this thread is silly.

Well said. As someone who had classes with two very beautiful, fun, and smart female teachers in HS, I can safely say that in addition to my own fantasies, the majority of the straight male student body wanted to have sex with them. And who knows, some of the female students probably did too. More power to them.

I in no way condone teacher student sex. Anyone who thinks I do because because of the above is wrong. 16 yo me was disappointed. Adult me is very glad they didn't. It would not have gone well because I definitely wasn't mature enough to not tell everyone who would listen.

There was a local case of a female teacher having sex with a male classmate of thing #1 sophomore year. It wasn't good for either party.

[oftpiste]

In high school (mid-70s) I had a wonderful English teacher who was flamboyantly gay, VERY out for those days. Great guy, hilarious, smart, caring. Everyone wanted to be in his class. There was a small group of us, both male and female, who got pretty close to him and did stuff outside of school like going out to eat, park hangs, smoking cigs. A group of us even hung out at his apartment once.

In those days everyone hugged a lot, and platonic touch was pretty free and easy. He never once made anyone feel an inappropriate gaze, or delivered anything other than a platonic touch. And I'd know because the other kids that hung out with him were all close friends. I do have young childhood sexual abuse by a male church leader in my past, so the radar is pretty sharp.

It's a super fond memory to this day. He was a great dude. Of course nothing like that could ever happen today. And It's kinda sad that any kind of touch has become ruled by the lowest-common-demoniator factor (like so many other things in the modern world). Most people who have kids sit on their laps or hang out with their students are doing so in complete innocence and out of care. And unfortunately (and importantly) we have to protect the vulnerable from the few who are not.

[zion zig zag]

TGR can be strange. I originally read TH’s comments and didn’t think much of it. And then come back a day later and see the fallout. People love to be offended.


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[SumJongGuy]

Believe it or not, most of us are capable of compartmentalizing. We can see a post about a teacher having sex with a student and make jokes, while also not condoning pedophilia or rape or whatever. Many of us remember being horny teens fantasizing about a hot teacher (or an imaginary hot teacher) and can laugh about a news story, without actually condoning the behavior of the real people in the news story or condoning the behavior of predatory teachers, female or male. People can also watch porn without wondering whether the woman on screen was abused as a child, or only doing porn because she came from a broken home, or whatever. As always, the reality of the people in any news story is different from commenting on the strangers in a news story. It's fine if you choose not to exercise that ability to compartmentalize here, but to act like people are approving of teachers preying on students because of this thread is silly.

+100000000000

People can also be aware of the fact that there are actual child (and adult) predators out there without being overly suspicious of that activity sans any actual evidence of it in the given situation beyond circumstantial.

[ex-powderbroker]

I wasn't offended but put out of sorts by the fact that some people put together the notion that people in drag are child molesters and other people said to the effect that some people don't have the right to read other kids stories.

in a thread full of child molestation and sexual abuse, painting completely innocent people with the same brush seemed a bridge too far. now the posts have been edited and deleted so everything looks a bit different, but that was the sentiment.

i am glad everyone is getting along now and that maybe people have reconsidered whether the preconceived notions they had (or at least ill considered speech) was bigoted. another thing that strikes me is that even in a forum of pretty middle of the road, middle aged, ski bum wannabes how many people are touched by these issues personally whether having non-gender binary family members or alternative preferences close by. it does seem easier to come by now than 25 years ago and the reasons that may be vary wildly but there is no reason that an innocent group of people should have to live in shame, fear, or excluded.

back to Van Halen "Hot for Teacher" story hour.

[Trackhead]

Believe it or not, most of us are capable of compartmentalizing. We can see a post about a teacher having sex with a student and make jokes, while also not condoning pedophilia or rape or whatever. Many of us remember being horny teens fantasizing about a hot teacher (or an imaginary hot teacher) and can laugh about a news story, without actually condoning the behavior of the real people in the news story or condoning the behavior of predatory teachers, female or male. People can also watch porn without wondering whether the woman on screen was abused as a child, or only doing porn because she came from a broken home, or whatever. As always, the reality of the people in any news story is different from commenting on the strangers in a news story. It's fine if you choose not to exercise that ability to compartmentalize here, but to act like people are approving of teachers preying on students because of this thread is silly.

Agreed. This is the Padded Room, but most people here are now aged/experienced adults who also fundamentally understand right/wrong and typical adult acceptable behavior. None of which is being displayed here, by myself, or anyone.

Again, change the gender scenario and everyone in this thread is an instant creep. It's still fucked up any way you try to rationalize it.

[SumJongGuy]

Again, change the gender scenario and everyone in this thread is an instant creep. It's still fucked up any way you try to rationalize it.

You've lost me here. Trusted adults (or bosses, mentors etc) using that position to chase sex in real life is wrong. The adults/bosses/mentors (all of them) are real creeps regardless of what sex/gender they are. Nobody here would say a cougar banging a 15 year old male student is any more OK than a 40 year old man banging a 15 year old female student. Please chime in if I have your view about that wrong (anybody?)

This entire train wreck started because it sounded like some posters were saying a trans or gay person should be vetted differently than a cis person or a male or a female should be vetted differently.. example given kindergartener sitting on a lap. Some have walked that back or rephrased it as all laps matter are bad or whatever Fair enough.. but there it is again.. Here we are..

[SumJongGuy]

If there were more diversity posting here the examples people snicker about here might also reflect more diversity.. It's not that folks think one is OK but the other isn't. It's the non diverse experience non diverse posters are bringing

[Danno]

Agreed. This is the Padded Room, but most people here are now aged/experienced adults who also fundamentally understand right/wrong and typical adult acceptable behavior. None of which is being displayed here, by myself, or anyone.

Again, change the gender scenario and everyone in this thread is an instant creep. It's still fucked up any way you try to rationalize it.

Those scenarios *are* changed in this very thread, there have been posts about men preying on female students, same sex teacher/student pairings, and varying ages. And people change their responses based on those differences. The ones that track most closely to our past reality as horndog teenage boys get the most jokes and positive responses, and as the age of the victim goes down, or the gender changes, get the more serious replies. And your complaints have been raised in some fashion since the very beginning of this thread (check page 1), it's not like people have been blind to what we're discussing. And look at post 53 and the subsequent discussion, the same people who made jokes about the "hot teacher" that was the original subject recognized that a 12 yo was not ok at all. In other words, we a) understand that we're just joking around about this topic and b) that the circumstances of the real people matter. Not every 16yo fucking a teacher is being raped or being taken advantage, but some are. We're all just joking in here, not truly discussing the power dynamics of the specific people in a specific news story that we don't know anything about.

[AK47bp]

Here’s a nice rundown of recent activity.

I have no sympathy for the 17yr old that banged the Bengals cheerleader, if I was his bud he’d get a high five.

17/18 year old boys banging girls in their mid to late 20’s is not that disgusting to me.

But yes, most on the list are disgusting and predatory and should be charged with crimes.

https://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/not...-sex-scandals/

[Trackhead]

Those scenarios *are* changed in this very thread, there have been posts about men preying on female students, same sex teacher/student pairings, and varying ages. And people change their responses based on those differences. The ones that track most closely to our past reality as horndog teenage boys get the most jokes and positive responses, and as the age of the victim goes down, or the gender changes, get the more serious replies. And your complaints have been raised in some fashion since the very beginning of this thread (check page 1), it's not like people have been blind to what we're discussing. And look at post 53 and the subsequent discussion, the same people who made jokes about the "hot teacher" that was the original subject recognized that a 12 yo was not ok at all. In other words, we a) understand that we're just joking around about this topic and b) that the circumstances of the real people matter. Not every 16yo fucking a teacher is being raped or being taken advantage, but some are. We're all just joking in here, not truly discussing the power dynamics of the specific people in a specific news story that we don't know anything about.

Good points, noted, and agree.

Rational thought process, cogent writing, and calm discussion is a lost art. Bravo to you for engaging these attributes.

[ikonfreewasatch]

Trackhead’s feeling the wrath of the tgr left wing mob. How dare you have a different opinion than the mob and want to raise your kid how you want.

[rideit]

Trackhead’s feeling the wrath of the tgr left wing mob. How dare you have a different opinion than the mob and want to raise your kid how you want.

This is highly, highly (cough, DeSantis) ironic.

[SumJongGuy]

Just send your kid to school with a gun amirite??

[rideit]

The Woke Mob are a bunch of pussies for not wanting guns at school.

[Core Shot]

The Woke Mob are a bunch of pussies for not wanting guns at school.

Dude.

The preferred nomenclature is kitten.

[Trackhead]

Trackhead’s feeling the wrath of the tgr left wing mob. How dare you have a different opinion than the mob and want to raise your kid how you want.

Like I said before, my political stance is "gender fluid/non-binary". I'm essentially a liberal in drag, or maybe a conservative redneck exploring a political spectrum of fluidity.

[ikonfreewasatch]

The Woke Mob are a bunch of pussies for not wanting guns at school.

wrong thread dipshits, but not surprised coming from a couple of losers with over 47k combined post on a ski forum and don’t even ski.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

Dude.

The preferred nomenclature is kitten.

It’s limp dick moran! I’m trying to stop the use of pussy as an insult. Everyone loves pussy, no one likes a limp dick.


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[m2711c]

fuck off dude, if i wanted to hear from an asshole i would have farted.

[AK47bp]

It’s limp dick moran! I’m trying to stop the use of pussy as an insult. Everyone loves pussy, no one likes a limp dick.


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Hopefully my doctor does when I get my check up.

And morning wood sucks when you have to pee.