Awesome, B. It's gonna be good. Enjoy.
A divorce...
Though as it turns out, even losing half my retirement, taking on ALL the joint debt, and paying alimony and child support, divorcing a partner who doesn’t make meaningful income has meant that, on balance, my standard of living hasn’t changed too much after getting on top of that initial impact. At this point, all the debt is paid off and I’m actually moving forward again. Having a partner now who does have meaningful income will likely lead to moving that date forward, if anything.
In 3 years alimony cuts out, child support starts to cut out as kids graduate from high school, and at that point it’s a race to the number.
focus.
Greeter at Walmart??
Start a Euro Ski-Blog for N. American touristas, should we ever get back to traveling. Probably wouldn't make any money at it but could potentially score some free lift tickets, maybe some lodging, maybe more. We did that pretty successfully for about 15 years with our video gigs. I don't know, there's something out there for you, just need to explore some ideas.
Thanks!
I hope so. I'm generally a pretty anxious guy and definAtely have panic attacks about the future, but it's getting time to say fuckit.
btw, both you fuckers better visit us in CO.
I am building a little guest shack in the backyard here in WA as well; should be habitable by July.
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Congratulations. I can say that I probably will never feel like I have enough, but if anything covid made me realize I was financially independent and working was icing on the cake. No expenses, good pile of assets, college money saved years ago, etc.
I’m too young to stop and I genuinely enjoy making more money for the sake of my family’s future, but if anything covid got me back my time. So perhaps a reimagined future in a post pandemic world is in order.
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Congrats, Buster. I'm confident you'll keep yourself busy.
Way to go buster.
A bunch of years ago I went to a friend’s parents Christmas party at their monstrous house on the water on Mercer Island, (near Seattle). They ended up selling and moving into a small condo. It seemed to be more than just simply downsizing, (something didn’t make sense obviously). I just found out that about 10 years ago they lent $2 million to their son and he never paid it back.
Well maybe I'm the faggot America
I'm not a part of a redneck agenda
Never lend out money you need back. Learned that lesson long ago.
Never in U.S. history has the public chosen leadership this malevolent. The moral clarity of their decision is crystalline, particularly knowing how Trump will regard his slim margin as a “mandate” to do his worst. We’ve learned something about America that we didn’t know, or perhaps didn’t believe, and it’ll forever color our individual judgments of who and what we are.
Strong work on hitting the finish line, buster.
And: Never lend money to family. It’s either a gift or nothing.
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^ Except for the misgivings, way to go B!
Two million, holy crap. I once asked my dad to lend me three grand for some business idea I had. He said no. I wrote him a nasty letter. Years later he told me that letter really hurt him. He remembered every word. I had completely forgotten about it. But I apologized and said I was wrong. He said he always wondered if he'd made the wrong decision.
i lent junior money to buy a DH frame so he could keep riding and he fucked around paying me back, so I said i'm never lending you money again, he eventualy did pay me back but the statement stands
now he runs the shop and i have to go with my hat in hand for the deal
but thats OK cuz i think he learned some shit about business
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Covid pushed me over the line but I’ve been WFH part time (at full pay) for the last 18 months. You can get away with a lot when you have nothing to lose. After a couple months of not working I can’t imagine ever working again and have no idea how I did it for 18 years!
I’ve always wondered about that. Any interest in sharing/extrapolating on that?
Gotta say that I have no clue about what the number would be but at 35 with a 6 month old and hopefully at least a couple more to come, I don’t know how any of you have been able to retire, period. Both wife and I have what would be considered “good” professions but neither of us have even a sniff at retiring before 65. One thing I’ve realized is that working for someone will likely lead to difficulty retiring at 65, let alone early, unless you’re in a field that pays FU type wages (of which I’d say 99% of us are not a part of).
For those of you who have done well financially - what would you say was the key for you? Smart investments? Great business idea? Luck (no judgement there on my end - the saying goes that you have to be good to be lucky and lucky to be good). Combination of factors? Trying to figure out how to achieve what some of you have done financially.
"...if you're not doing a double flip cork something, skiing spines in Haines, or doing double flip cork somethings off spines in Haines, you're pretty much just gaping."
I dont have FU money but I found a way for the owner to make a bunch of extra money and asked for a % of it in the pitch.
Live below your means, save, invest.
I split my investments between the stock market and rental properties. I owned/managed seven single family homes that I purchased over a decade. The tenants rent covers the mortgage and expenses, took a line a credit out once I paid one down, used the funds to buy the next one and so on and so on. The stock stuff, I just found a good manager and let it ride, 20 years later still going, deposit into it religiously. If you are in it for the long term it is really hard to screw up. I have been self employed for the last 15 years (real estate broker). I'm 43 years old, I figure I have 3 to 4 more years to go to get to my number. No plans to retire, but big plans to cut back and take on only the work I want and ski a lot more. Of course this is the oversimplified version, I worked my ass off 24/7 for a long time to make it all happen, went 3 or 4 years without skiing, mountain biking, or anything else fun while building my business. Was the sacrifice worth it.......I don't know anymore but I see the light at the end of the tunnel and I can't fucking wait to get there.
I guess I seen all them freedom 55 adds on TV but i fucked up & missed it by 6 years cuz I retired at 49,
I have zero idea what was key cuz i planned nothing, the IBM gig with the DB pensions was huge and i got that by hanging with the service managers kid, fixing his hot mustang and partying like its 1984 which hadn't happened yet,
those gigs don't exist anymore but it worked for me
getting divorced was a big money saver, even after paying child support ... net ahead
play the long game so think 30 yars out or don't think and wait till the end, spend 10% less than you make and invest/save the money ... not rocket biology
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