Yes they are. And it sucks. But they were fucked either way, the government orders have nothing to do with it. If you can't get enough patrons to operate above the shutdown point you're better off closing the doors. That's one of the sad realities that must be accepted--unless they can come up with a plan that makes people safe (and makes them feel safe).
The first step toward that is pushing through the fear to accept reality. Facing an existential threat is hard. The first stage of grief is denial and it can be a bitch. You gotta get past that before you can take rational actions. It's easier to ignore the problem by minimizing it with distractions and justifying that to yourself by claiming that since it's hopeless anyway there's nothing you can do. But that instinct leads to inaction and delays the necessary steps toward acceptance. Don't waste your life in that state.
This thing has obviously had a big effect on you. Is your wife any safer these days? I hope so. Mine has received a grudging level of support but would rather just not be working right now. She switches often between fear and courage and some kind of stiff upper lip determination. Some days it's all I can do not to go full Core Shot and start a thread called "Brush and floss and Listerine and skip the dentist if you don't want 19." This whole thing sucks. But it's not going to go away by giving up, it's going to require rational decisions and actions. Settle in for a marathon. We'll get through it. Probably.
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