Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

[wyeaster]

thank you for being so compassionate. i'm not picking scabs here. i'm evolving. i obviously expected too much respect in this thread.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

Yep. I'm still a terrible cunt.

Self awareness is the first step to getting healthy.

[TWINS]

What the actual fuck is going on in here. Jesus fucking christ.

And just because: Twins, you ain't got no contract with the catholic church, because a contract means there is some mutual obligation. The catholic church has zero obligations to you. More, you don't have a contract with California, either. You have a contract with each other that is governed by the law of whatever state in which you reside.

Stated that wrong.
Meant to say I have a contract governed by the Catholic Church with my wife.
And also have a contract governed by the State of California with my wife .
I consider any agreement between 2 people that has rules governed by a outside institution a contract by nature.

[TWINS]

i'm just curious why i should change my account. i'm losing my wife, half the time with my son, my home, my health, i can't work and i spend most of my time alone. this after living in fucking hell for 30 years. are there people here who think they can make it worse and want to?

Not me. I wish you the best. I hope things get better for you soon and you get the peace that you need. You seem to be going the right direction. Nobody on this board is perfect. Thats for sure.

[PNWbrit]

thank you for being so compassionate.

To be brutally honest it was brutal honesty not compassion talking.

[irul&ublo]

Nobody on this board is perfect. Thats for sure.

As indicated by the infamous 2x post.

[4matic]

Fucking shit, I need to get out of my own head. Every time I hear my wife's demands all I can think of is how much more convoluted her lies are. I actually can't believe that I wasn't wise to her shit earlier. Fucking cheating bitch. This week will be a fun one. More disappointment delivered on my end, followed by her own attorney telling her that she can't hide all the 100's of thousands of dollars she transferred out of the joint account for her own use unless she has a way of paying it back. joy, joy.

No responses to this in the junk storm. Damn dude. That's some serious crap. I'm more convinced in rent not own. Good luck.

[wyeaster]

To be brutally honest it was brutal honesty not compassion talking.

that is your version. you clarified it earlier and i don't need it thanks.

[stfu&gbtw]

or you could stop doing exactly what she does, and inflicting chaos for no other reason than you apparently enjoy it. i have no idea why you feel compelled to continue to give me unwanted attention hassling me not about general shit, but really heavy shit. i don't get it.

Lol... Dude, I'm one of the least chaotic people you'll talk to today. I get that you don't get it... It is, as far as I can tell, the primary character trait you share in common with Pedoherp... An inability to understand the correlation between how you behave toward others, and how others behave toward you. Your whole "I have it so bad, people just need to understand me" schtick is a perfect example. Both you and she obviously stopped developing sometime in middle school, and you both still carry the expectation that the world is going to appreciate you and your problems for being unique and special. But you and they are not, and the repetitive, foot-stamping insistence to the contrary grows wearisome.

Whatever it is you need to do - fucking go do it. And don't be surprised that you elicit a public reaction when you choose to publicly air your dirty laundry.

[DBdude]

^exactly

many folks have gone through shit in their lives to different degrees than you. previously you went out of your way to argue and go after people as spook and now it's this passive woe is me shit and I then a lecture because you are a changed person

what the fuck ever

[4matic]

So the spook disappearance was related to the landlord stalker? Makes sense.

[buttahflake]

Cliff notes or a set list? Didn't read, is mtngirl cunting shit up?

[DBdude]

it's the perfect storm - wyeaster and mtgrl - drama queen squared

[wyeaster]

your characterization of my schtick is all you. you have gone out of your way to badger me repeatedly for no reason. that's all you. just because you can doesn't mean you have to.

[DBdude]

if that is directed at me, I don't badger you. If you think I do, then you really have a serious separation issue with reality

[XXX-er]

So did all the whiners from TT.com come over here or were they always just closet AT skiers ?

[DBdude]

you talkin' to me? - lol

[Rip'nStick]

Being an asshole is like a seasoning. Some people just don't get that it should be used judiciously or simply have no other spice in life.

once again, Buster comes through with a well put nugget of truth. Latter describes STFU to a T. Others like myself are just tired of mtngrl's tired shit but STFU encourages it. He genuinely seems to enjoy making people upset. I can think of better things to do with my life, but who knows what happened there... not good whatever it was

[Rip'nStick]

you both still carry the expectation that the world is going to appreciate you and your problems for being unique and special. But you and they are not, and the repetitive, foot-stamping insistence to the contrary grows wearisome.

Whatever it is you need to do - fucking go do it. And don't be surprised that you elicit a public reaction when you choose to publicly air your dirty laundry.

That being said, this is pretty spot on...

Yeah I have gone through some shit like what you are going through wyeaster, I just didn't make it public here. The old time mags that do at least make an alias usually. There's a reason for that.

[Svengali]

Lots of Holier than Thou mother fuckers around here....
Flying to Europe 30+ yrs ago, after a few Gauloises, beverages between us, the old guy in the aisle seat across from me said to me that people change enough every ten years that if your married to someone for 50 years, it's like being married to 5 different people. He said the odds are pretty good that you are going to fucking hate (or vise-versa) one of them! I have always remembered this like it was yesterday, probably reasons why I've never married. I also have no idea if he developed this theory himself or plagerized it from some noted philosopher.

[4matic]

Svengali is Hemingway?

[DBdude]

^ my thoughts also

[TWINS]

As indicated by the infamous 2x post.

Yes!!!!! Made me laugh Thanks...

[TWINS]

Lots of Holier than Thou mother fuckers around here....
Flying to Europe 30+ yrs ago, after a few Gauloises, beverages between us, the old guy in the aisle seat across from me said to me that people change enough every ten years that if your married to someone for 50 years, it's like being married to 5 different people. He said the odds are pretty good that you are going to fucking hate (or vise-versa) one of them! I have always remembered this like it was yesterday, probably reasons why I've never married. I also have no idea if he developed this theory himself or plagerized it from some noted philosopher.

That's fuck in awesome ^^^^
Thankyou for posting this

[XXX-er]

Hmmm ... explains why I've been married twice eh