Who floats your boat?

[dk_alaskan]

Jesus dude, how long do you think it will take for you to go from 'sappy broken heart guy' to 'creepy stalker guy'? I don't know where you are but somebody needs to come and slap you.

no creepy stalker here. have too much shit going on with school and live too far away. lost my best friend and lover in one shot and have never really opend up to a woman like this before about the thing most guys dread talking about "feelings". so yeah, hurt and i am havinga hard time dealing with it.

and yeah, if you want to, give me a "suck it up/man up slap" go ahead

[Fritz]

Make sure you let her know often what she means to you and how important she is. If you think it is enough, chances are, it isn't. I just learned this one the hard way why my sweetie. Keep an open line of communicaton too. It helps to reasure her that you are not looking for "bigger and better" even though you never do/did

Funny shit. Our therapist tells us the same thing (for $180/hr). I really wasn't expecting to hear that in this thread

[Art Shirk]

Or you can just use the wooing methods of Rob DeNiro in "This Boy's Life." Seems to work pretty well

Dwight Hansen: You can get it doggy-style or you can get it laying on your side. Those are your only choices. This is my house and I get to say. Got it?

[dk_alaskan]

Funny shit. Our therapist tells us the same thing (for $180/hr). I really wasn't expecting to hear that in this thread

tell you what, i will cut you a maggot deal how does $40 an hour sound? don't have to let the wife in on the secret that the rest of the $120 goes towards ski stuff and gifts for her...

I wrote what i wrote because i was completely blind sided and burned pretty badly when I needed my maggette the most. I don't want others to go through the same pain that i am right now if i can at all help from my experience.

[Fritz]

^^^Sounds brilliant if you can fly to Boulder once every couple months. Seriously though, that's some good free advice no matter how sappy it sounds.

[HotCarl]

Fritz,where was that first photo taken? It looks tropical as hell

[dk_alaskan]

^^^Sounds brilliant if you can fly to Boulder once every couple months. Seriously though, that's some good free advice no matter how sappy it sounds.

Well, that most likely can be arranged. I am graduamating here with my masters in sports admin and trying to find a job out your way.

[KGTrips]

Make sure you let her know often what she means to you and how important she is. If you think it is enough, chances are, it isn't. I just learned this one the hard way why my sweetie. Keep an open line of communicaton too. It helps to reasure her that you are not looking for "bigger and better" even though you never do/did

Fight too. Not throw stuff around fight but you gotta be able to air out your differences and still be ok after all is said and done. Love you, love you all the time is not the formula for a long termer. I know. I'm 20 x 2 plus 4 and married for 15 years -together 17. Some years better than others (also a reality you must be willing to accept in a long term relationship). Still happily married though. No Charge.

[Fritz]

Fritz,where was that first photo taken? It looks tropical as hell

Phi Phi islands in Thailand.

[Ubersheist]

Lately, this is the only thing that's been floating my boat...



Fuck, I need to get out more...

[valleygirl]

It had to happen -- in fact, I've been waiting for it.

You be funny.

[Superstar Punani]

She pays me to give her pleasure

[Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo]

I don't know much but I'll add my advice to this "classically bad" thread: Don't air dirty relationship laundary on a public internet forum your ex is a member of and checks in on. I think chicks call that "passive aggressive" and it's been my experience that they hate it. But I'm just a kid so don't listen to me. Carry on now folks.

edit: I thought this was the relationship advice thread, this thread is not "classically bad". But my advice still stands.

[dk_alaskan]

anger and pain cause people to do this, and not passive agressive per se. venting so i can move on

edit: you are right JJJS, In my pain and anger, i shouldn't vent like i did. I only want the best for her, i don't want her to feel the pain and hurt i am. Someday, who knows what happens, but if i go out in flames, i will never have possible chance with her.

[Ubersheist]

I don't know much but I'll add my advice to this "classically bad" thread: Don't air dirty relationship laundary on a public internet forum your ex is a member of and checks in on. I think chicks call that "passive aggressive" and it's been my experience that they hate it. But I'm just a kid so don't listen to me. Carry on now folks.

Meh... my right hand still loves me, and I still love my right hand. My left hand is a f@cking dick, though, and won't stop talking shit behind my back. Grow the fuck up already, left hand!

[Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo]

Meh... my right hand still loves me, and I still love my right hand. My left hand is a f@cking dick, though, and won't stop talking shit behind my back. Grow the fuck up already, left hand!

Get lefty in on the action, I hear girls like ambidextrous guys. Plus I have it on good account that when you switch from right to left for the first time, its like a whole new women.

[RootSkier]

Yeah, sit on your left hand until it goes to sleep, then give 'er.

They don't call it the left handed stranger for nothin.

Did I mention my wife is in Las Vegas right now????

[dk_alaskan]

I don't know much but I'll add my advice to this "classically bad" thread: Don't air dirty relationship laundary on a public internet forum your ex is a member of and checks in on. I think chicks call that "passive aggressive" and it's been my experience that they hate it. But I'm just a kid so don't listen to me. Carry on now folks.

edit: I thought this was the relationship advice thread, this thread is not "classically bad". But my advice still stands.

I have pushed too hard, i need to take a step back and let HER re-evaluate things, i don't want to have her in my life any other way. That hurts to say, but i want the best for her, i have never wanted anything else.

[mcsquared]

I have pushed too hard, i need to take a step back and let HER re-evaluate things, i don't want to have her in my life any other way. That hurts to say, but i want the best for her, i have never wanted anything else.

I don't even know you and I want to break up with you. Platitudes will get you nowhere. Man up and treat the next one better rather than crying in your pillow.

[Viva]

Man up and treat the next one better rather than crying in your pillow.

Sometimes you need to cry a little first. Well, a lot, really.

[dk_alaskan]

Sometimes you need to cry a little first. Well, a lot, really.

yeah, pretty much what i am doing, manning up in the past has gotten me no where, so trying something new here, but i will move on. don't mean to be thrunting up this thread.

[Chemical Ali' The Wax Master]

My welder and my bilge pump keep my boats afloat.
My wife keeps me in line.
My work gives me a dime.
Microbrew keeps me fine.

[valleygirl]

Sometimes you need to cry a little first. Well, a lot, really.

Swarthy AND sensitive...

hmmmmm

[El Chupacabra]

Swarthy AND sensitive...

hmmmmm

[valleygirl]

omfg.......