I'm currently in a bit of a bedroom kerfuffle with the GF, and it involves my wearing of socks when we are going at it. The sex is all good and everything, but she brings it up every damn time, and I'm tiring of her objections.
Now I must confess that I am a creature of comfort, and as such there are many ways I like to indulge myself in life. Things such as a properly-brewed coffee and a clean toilet that never fails to flush allow me that extra bit of pleasure to the daily routine. She enjoys many of the same comforts as well, but apparently draws the line on clothes when it's sexy time.
Her complaints are basically that she doesn't like having any clothes involved when we are getting intimate (apparently OK for her though...). Her favorite moments are with bare skin-contact, and that men wearing clothes are only a distraction . I replied by asking her about her thoughts on including socks in some kind of sexy-clothing-themed role play. I went on to describe all the different lengths and styles that a sock can have, and to "think about all of the possibilities" we could have. I was met with a stare of disappointment, so I quickly changed the subject back.
Personally, I think every person should be wearing socks while getting it on, as warm feet can provide benefits to one's health in the bedroom, and beyond. But she's not having it, so I need to adjust strategies if I'm to keep the socks on.
Discuss.
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