One group of ten is pretty close to harmless. A bunch of groups of ten, now the virus is spreading, out to get us, widespread death (Wuhan, Italy, Spain, NYC).
Sorry about your coworker's friend.
I believe we all want the economy going great again ASAP. Problem is that's not going to happen with Covid spreading rapidly. Until people feel safe, the economy will not recover, and may get worse. To make people feel safe, we could silence doctors and lie. But that's un-American, and unworkable anyway, so scratch that. We could demonstrate dramatically falling case counts and then South Korea-like infection control. We could invent a vaccine. Waiting for vaccine will be really hard on the economy. Maybe we're lucky and the fringe theories are correct that either we're all exposed already, or those of us who aren't sick are resistant, or the IFR is really low (this last one is dead). IMHO we're not that lucky, but I'm happy to be wrong.
We already tried to run the economy without distancing. That was an obvious failure by mid-March (earlier for anyone who noticed Wuhan). Cases skyrocket, hospitals get overwhelmed, bodes pile up fast.
Basically, we need great infection control to reduce cases. And we need personal protection and distancing in the right places effective enough to keep cases very low. Then we can make a believable "it's just like a bad flu" argument, so long as we maintain strong infection control and low case counts.
There's a balance, but I personally think 2,000 dying per day is too high. And I see that number multiplying if we loosen today's level of virus control. We need to encourage the public health experts to implement practices that allow a high level of infection control *and* economic recovery. Individually, we need to do our best not to spread it until we all know and demonstrate best practices. Currently, we're running a minimal economy, and only holding new infections and deaths even. We must do better.
Americans in Hawaii and Montana have demonstrated the level of virus suppression in the IHME models. New Yorkers are also showing great progress. The rest of us... we can do this.