Questions for shmoesmith.

If people got fired for being dicks on the internet nobody under the age of 70 would have a job.

I need phUnk to thrunt up this thread some more.

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Originally Posted by Roo

I'm sure CM means well. I just don't think she articulated things very cleverly.

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I think i'm getting another clue mmmmmm.

This thread is by far the worst thing I've seen on this forum. Everyone who has not come out strongly against it ought to be ashamed.

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Originally Posted by shmoesmith

I have sent 'concerned maggots' a PM with his answers. He knows the whole truth of the situation now. I don't think there will be any trouble from CM after he reads the PM. There is nothing true about me that he could divulge that could hurt my reputation any. Anything he *thinks* he knows that could do that would be a lie that he picked up from someone else.

I have asked him not to make my answers public, and I hope that if he has any sort of honor, he will do so. If the answers are important to you, send me a PM. I don't want anyone thinking less of my wife, or myself because of rumors.

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FWIW, you don't owe anyone on this board an explanation. I hope in some way that your continued presence on this board helps your healing process.

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Originally Posted by str8line

This thread is by far the worst thing I've seen on this forum.

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I dunno. I think the one where the guy was pissing into his own Nalgene bottle was possibly worse.

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Originally Posted by str8line

This thread is by far the worst thing I've seen on this forum. Everyone who has not come out strongly against it ought to be ashamed.

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I'm not one to get caught up in internet drama, but . . .

If everyone would have just ignored this thread from the beginning, it would have dissappeared from sight within minutes.

Now there are 2 ongoing troll threads on top of page 1, and all the sweet TR's are dying a slow death.

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Originally Posted by altachic

This has nothing to do with BC.com or the money and I'm glad Shmoe has posted.

I don't know any rumors, I have not heard them at work, so please don't think that this is where these so called rumors came from. I want you to use that $$$ however you see fit, because we donated to someone who lost their wife in an unexpected way. You have had and will have a lot of pain to deal with Doug and we are here for you. I will send you a PM if I feel so inclined.

And I do agree that calling Doug out here in public is not right. I do not know who did it, but it should be something that should have been done in private, so I'm ashamed this has been out here like this.

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Wow, are you the same person who posted this

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Originally Posted by altachic

There is a reason for this post and I feel it's warranted.

I mean no disrespect to demo woman at all, whatsoever so please take this the right way....I too want to make sure we are donating to the truth, to the right cause. Just my $.02

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and this

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Originally Posted by altachic

This whole situation is so emotionally charged that this is offensive to some degree, so I agree. I do not know who posted this, but I hope there can be some resolution to the questions or to this post.

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????

Now it has nothing to do with the $, yet before you wanted to make sure you gave "to the right cause"? Now, after many have posted with their disgust, you're suddenly ashamed? After some people used your "edorsement" of this thread as a reason it was valid? Where was your shame back on page 1?

Posting my disgust at CM and the so-called reasons for this thread does two things.
It "bumps" it...a bad thing
But it in some pathetically small and insignificant way lets Doug, and those around him, know that CM does not speak for me.

CM....you should be ashamed.

This is pointless. I do NOT know who posted this thread. I think it would have been much more tactful to just pm him with whatever questions this person has.

I donated my $$ to Doug, no matter what the deal is because he lost his wife. That is it.

Doug knows that if I had questions, I would PM him.

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Originally Posted by altachic

I do not know who did it.

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It wasn't me. :nonono2:

Background: I didn't donate to Doug, but now I'm planning to.

I'll say this: I've lived in a Communist country until '89. When the system / the secret police wanted to tarnish a person's reputation (usually someone who had a spine), without any basis in reality, the articles which appeared in papers, or the comments one heard, were phrased exactly how CM phrased that initial post: 'Is it true that...?' ...'we have more information which we will release if need be' and so on. And they were signed, in many cases, 'a concerned citizen'.

I fuckin' hated that approach then and I sure fuckin' hate it now.

So it's a Communist Conspiracy? Who knew?

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Originally Posted by Tippster

So it's a Communist Conspiracy? Who knew?

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It's a Homeland Security Black Op, shhh, or it's off to Guantanamo with you.

I'm surprised that Concerned Maggot didn't audit Plakesphere's donation for worthiness, or stipulate the skis bought by iskibc. :nonono2:

http://www.needlenose.com/i/fubar/turgidson.jpg
"I'm beginning to smell a big, fat, Commie rat.""

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Originally Posted by iceman

It's a Homeland Security Black Op, shhh, or it's off to Guantanamo with you.

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Good call - that place suxxors.

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Originally Posted by Cirquerider

I'm surprised that Concerned Maggot didn't audit Plakesphere's donation for worthiness, or stipulate the skis bought by iskibc. :nonono2:

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I hear that all Plakespear has is athlete's foot.

What a fucking shitstorm. Give the guy a break. Sure, I'd like to hear the full story but only out of curiosity. It would not enrich mylife to know the truth. I sent money to him for him to use as he sees fit, if he wants to spend it on hookers & blow he can go wild although for my donation she's going to be a pretty skanky whore & no blow so I'd recommend spending someone elses money too.

Lighten up people

^^ what he said

I was about to say something, but then Beaver said it better.

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Originally Posted by Roo

I dunno. I think the one where the guy was pissing into his own Nalgene bottle was possibly worse.

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Whatever, man this is way worse. I cleaned that thing out with rice and vinegar and my dysentery went away.

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Originally Posted by Beaver

What a fucking shitstorm. Give the guy a break. Sure, I'd like to hear the full story but only out of curiosity. It would not enrich mylife to know the truth. I sent money to him for him to use as he sees fit, if he wants to spend it on hookers & blow he can go wild although for my donation she's going to be a pretty skanky whore & no blow so I'd recommend spending someone elses money too.

Lighten up people

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This being TGR, I would be disappointed if he didn't get a hooker and blow with my donation?

All the gossip mongering doesn't change the facts. Shmoe lost his wife. He was financially strapped as a result. People sent money without stipulations of what "lifestyle" he should be living or what he chooses to spend it on. Those who donated did so without any strings trying to impose our own morality on the guy.

CM, your post shows an utter lack of compassion. Yes, you may have a "right" to ask, but exercising that right in a public forum -during what should be a time of grief- makes you an uncouth bastard. If your intentions had been honorable (as you claimed), you'd have had the class to ask these things in a PM. Instead you chose not only to slander him publicly, but to do so under the veil of an alias! Piss fucking poor, and if you are a long-time maggot that you purport to be (or, as you alluded, part of some barn-burning 'collective'), you make me ashamed.

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Originally Posted by Roo

http://www.needlenose.com/i/fubar/turgidson.jpg
"I'm beginning to smell a big, fat, Commie rat.""

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bwah! more like a "big fat Mormon rat"? imposing their morals on others?

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Originally Posted by steve

can I state the obvious? she committed suicide - that's fucked up. whenever something fucked up happens, you can be sure that there are fucked up circumstances around it.

regardless - why she did it - the fucked up details - are none of my business.
what role anyone played is none of my business.
what doug will do with the money is none of my business.

and just because I gave a few bucks (not much), doesn't make it my business. all I know is there's a maggot needs help.

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What he said...

I hate to bump this thing and I am ashamed that it was posted like this. I just want Smoe to see another vote of support. I don't think the details are anyones business but his. I gave a small donation to help support someone who had been through a terrible tragedy, period.
Some of this has been posted above but it'll bear repeating:
Morality is highly subjective, and whether or not Shmoe or DW were involved in some kind of "alternative lifestyle" that may have contributed to the end result is irrelevant.
Every body's got dirty laundry and makes bad choices, none of it needs to be aired to anyone but your closest friends.
Someone taking their own life and the circumstances leading to it are always gonna be fucked up but the last thing Shmoe needs is to feel accountable to some anonymous asshole on the internet.
It's not our job to hold anyone accountable. The donations were a choice, and IMO, they don't buy the right to judge.
I want Shmoe to use the money for whatever makes him feel better. Whether it's his mortgage or hookers and blow is up to him.
CM certainly doesn't speak for me.
Good luck Shmoe.