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Originally Posted by bklyn
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Originally Posted by snowsprite
These are some smart women!
This is a sign of something I realized a looooong time ago.
Men marry the women they want to BE with.
Women marry the men they want to grow with.
She's likely grown (evolved) more than you have over the years.
When women grow, they can't go back. Trust me!
Time for you to catch up?
>Someone else will be on his best behavior to get a piece of this. Then you will be looking in from the outside, begging to get another chance.
What ever you do, don't let her appearance or your emotions of envy/jealousy/male pride and ego influence your decisions. If you let that drive you then it doesn't matter who's wrong or right... you'll make the bad decisions every time.
(I'm not saying attractive women are evil, I'm saying its hard for both men and women to handle when mixed with human emotional flaws. Its not alcohols' fault that people get drunk)
Throw her a good beatin'. Chicks love that. They never leave wifebeaters.Quote:
Originally Posted by NorCascader
That's a funny article.
so...wifey leaves on a fire detail for 2 weeks.
Friday, I rolled to Wenatchee, stopped by a friends pad and he kicked me down a bud.
I went home, saw her off (oreos and M&M's).
I saw her go down the driveway....
So I was stoked to get stoned on a full bowl.
I smoked. She forgot her shoes. I was totally cheeched and busted.
just shows the nature of meathead
as a friend of mine used to say, no matter how hot she is, no matter how cool you think she is, there is some dude somewhere who is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.*
*of course this does NOT apply to my lurking wife.
i love you sweetie!
my lurking wife....she hasn't really been on TGR since the snow melted.
She is the kind of lurker that goes straight to your name and searches all threads.
So...honey baby, this thread is for you
Bold move.Quote:
Originally Posted by NorCascader
If ganj was a dealbreaker here I'd have a problem with that.
well, if you know she lurks, and start a thread like this without an alias, sounds to me like you are trying to say something to her without saying something to her.Quote:
Originally Posted by iceman
I think I'm in love. ^^^Quote:
Originally Posted by bklyn
Back on topic - don't let her play games with you. Get the actual issues out on the table and deal with them. I have had the same sort of problems, only in dating situations where its easier to deal with I am sure, but you need to stand up for yourself and get things out there. You'll be a better man for it and you'll atleast know where the relationship actually stands besides having to fear an idle threat all of the time. DON'T BE HELD HOSTAGE BY HER THREATS, you won't ever deal with them if you're too afraid her.
People usually get what they want, usually without knowing what they want.Quote:
Originally Posted by fez
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Originally Posted by NorCascader
1) I Cuss more than you....
2) I fell in love with a man that rocked the outdoors, came home with dirt in yer teeth from biking, and crazy stories in the truck after skiing...
3) I am dirtier than you
4) I don't care about the ganga...but everything in moderation...you are retarded to talk to sometimes after a bowl...maybe keep it to once or twice a week when you have it.
5) The drinking gets way out of control...you aren't 21 anymore...you party like a rockstar...And I love it...but again you are retarded when you are drunk...and some nights I am not ready to deal with it...especially after a long day at work...6 beers a night...maybe a bit excessive...I don't know I am not saying either way...
6) You do take greaat care of our family...What girl gets to go fight fires for 14 days and know that everything at home is ok...that her son is being watched and her husband is dealing with it well...You are the best father ever!!! Der Ralphy...
7)I do lurk...just a tad....just to keep you on your toes....(bad Boy) Hanging the dirty laundry in TGR!
8)I have some issues I need to deal with as well...and sould searching like you said...You knew who I was before you married me too...a goody party girl...
9) I love you and really... unless you cheated on me or begame an alchoholic loser who couldn't pull his head out of his ass...I would never leave you...
10) Lets get drunk and float down the river this weekend!
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Originally Posted by Norcascadielady
Sounds like she's a keeper to me...now why don't you two kids go get a room and bonk your brains out. No TR requested.
Sack up and put down the pipe. You can always get weed, you can't always get a quality womang.Quote:
Originally Posted by NorCascader
From her quote:
There is nothing more infuriating than talking to someone who doesn't give a shit because they are stoned or drunk and doesnt care about the conversation.Quote:
you are retarded to talk to sometimes after a bowl
She isn't asking anything drastic, just keep your vices in moderation. You aren't Hemmingway or Tommy Lee, buck-o
Dood...
If my wife was 1/2 that cool...
I think you need a hard slapping to realize just what you've got.
commencing-to-sak-up!!!!
invitation for river madness accepted.
But would be appreciated.... :)Quote:
Originally Posted by irul&ublo
Sing it...
"Love is in the air..."
Awwww...how sweet.
A TGR love story. Have fun rafting:yourock:
If you don't stay sak'd up, we'll all come kick your ass.Quote:
Originally Posted by NorCascader
I'm sorry NorCascader, I'm wrong. You need to do it on yur own not because we'll come kick your ass. Good luck, man.
I have a story regarding similar circumstances. I'm full of stories these days. My ski buddy parties way hard. I mean way fkn hard. I went on a trip with him this season and his partying not only fucked up my trip some, but got me concerned for his future. I assumed his wife was well aware of his continuing passions cause i've been together with them both at other affairs and they share a love for the white stuff (or, she did). So, I'm seriously worried and on the way home tell him about my concerns and how I'll kick his ass if he blows his life (pun intended, sorry). Ya know, the business, kids, wife. One day, not long after, his wife calls for miscellaneous stuff and I mention how concerned I am about her husband. She says, "Why"?
I then go into detail about the partying he his buds did on our trip (all of them, like, on "vacation" from the wives...not my words), about the blow, no hookers though, and about how this interfered with some aspects of our trip. Ya know, like ripping the shit outta stuff. I mentioned this in some other post.
Anyway, I get a call at work not long after my phone conversation with his wife..
HeY, "train", what the fuck man!! I can't come home!! I'm down here working in Penn. and my wife is telling me to stay there!! WTF man!... you broke the guys code!!" (he promised his wife he gave the shit up, she gave it up way before.. she baited him, he lied, and then she sprung my info...)
I'm sorry, now it's funny, but then my jaw was on the fkn floor. I ended up offering him my place while I went on my own work trip. They're back together. I gained some respect for my concern but, shit.... do ya think I won't be invited on the trip next season??
and oh yeah, now I've got some sak'n up to do on my own..which means stepping awayyy from the computer.
That was a pretty epic back and forth - quality lady. :yourock:
If she is right and it is 6 beers a night, every night, then you probably have a drink issue.
Sorry to say it, but I am waaaay too familiar with that issue from close friend's experience.
She sounds like (and looks like!) a great gal....don't blow it, sort it.
Depends if they are pussy half sized beers or grrrrr pint British beers.Quote:
Originally Posted by rungsp
Noice that this has ended up good. A fine way to start the working day.