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As far so platonic friends of the opposite sex, you have your rules, that's fine. Don't expect anyone else to follow them.Quote:
Originally Posted by flatlander#2
As far as "naughty thoughts." That is human nature. They are not wrong. What makes someone faithful is the power of their actions to deny these thoughts.
I'd hope his partner does - his definition and his partners definition are the only ones that matter.Quote:
Originally Posted by Summit
Naughty thoughts rule, man. The naughtier the better!
Sprite
Different people have different grey areas. For some if they found out there hubby was at a boobie bar, their wife was flirting with a hot young muffin on girls night out, it'd be get your shit and get out. Fidelity means different things to different people.
I remember when High (In)Fidelity came out, that's how old I am.
Does rubbing one out, on her perfect perky breasts with out contact, incriminate?
Who is her?Quote:
Originally Posted by MacDaddy
The "other woman"Quote:
Originally Posted by Conundrum
How about barnyard animals or sex with aliens? Do those count?
now you are going somewhere! that would b crazy!Quote:
Originally Posted by Below Zero
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Originally Posted by Below Zero
If the aliens are in another zip code, they don't count.
Uhh... yeah, it counts. If you came in, on, or in the presence of someone else - it counts.Quote:
Originally Posted by MacDaddy
IMHO, looking & fantasizing don't count. Same with porno and visits to the titty bar, unless it leads to sex with another or it becomes a replacement. This stuff (under the banner of fantasy or in some circles mental cheating) could be a bonus if you come home extra randy or with new ideas.
Don't forget ghosts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Below Zero
Who is "her"?Quote:
Originally Posted by Conundrum
What if they are blind and didn't know you were beating off?Quote:
Originally Posted by bklyntrayc
I have naughty thoughts about sprite all the time and I've never even met her.Quote:
Originally Posted by snowsprite
Only if you have a quadrpelegic other who you physically can't have sex withQuote:
Originally Posted by Below Zero
Many in the poll admitted to cheating, but nary a post yet admitting it. And I will not be the first, or in a later list.
Nor will I admit to being drunk or not in control of my desires.
Nor will I pull a MacDaddy and throw out there my current masturbation dreams.:eek: :p ;)
I will admit that I am a H-U-G-E flirt and that gets me into shitloads of trouble at times...
Btw, anyone remember the Spencer Tracy--Katherine Hepburn story?
Okay - knowing that all of these decisions come down to a matter of honesty and trust...how would you feel about a situation where someone is separated, filed for a divorce taking up with someone new? (assuming the someone new is neither a barnyard animal or an alien).
Tut tut. I admitted it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhi
CURSE YOU TRACY!! I AM SO GONNA BURN FROM PAST EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES :FIREdevil
Sorry, sort of overlooked the kissing thing (if it was on the mouth that is), guess I do not consider kissing cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by grrrr
I'd say game on... it's not cheating when all that's left is the legal formalities of having the government recognize there's nothing left. I sure as shit wouldn't wait months or years for that to happen. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by grrrr
I also admitted to cheating.
Calm down there, 'Nut boy. Grab a beer and head off to the bathroom already...Quote:
Originally Posted by Joey Bag O' Donuts
That post on pg2 was not there, was it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Conundrum
Fuck! My grandma was right, I guess you do go blind. Shit!