
Originally Posted by
skiplct
Recap of my stats:
TPFx, complete mid-shaft fx and fib fx 8/2/12. Bicycling accident.
Surgery 8/8/12, 3 plates & 12 screws.
PWB at 8 weeks, still PWB except for a few TWB steps around kitchen.
58 y/o, single mom of 1 teen daughter, a German shepherd and 2 cats.
Not much in the way of social support structure.
No health insurance; was long term unemployed before accident.
Was extremely active before accident; jogged 10k/day for past 35 years plus daily bicycling,
gardening, frequent hiking, tennis.
Going to PT 2x/week and doing some stretches at home, some use of NuStep recumbent crosstrainer.
Was told flatly that I was lucky to have kept the leg at all and that I'd never jog again
like I used to. Might walk w/permanent limp. and or/cane.
As bad as the physical pain has been, it pales in comparison to the mental/emotional suffering
this injury inflicts. To recent posters c3neely, groycan, didevro-- please know that you
are not alone on this point. c3neely-- I congratulate you on the progress you've made even
to be walking around at all w/o crutches or walker, and that you have a job to walk around at.
All that is still a distant goal for me. Groycan-- I don't have the $$ for counseling but would do it if I could-- this thing is a tsunami to the morale and psyche. Didevro-- my car's a manual trans too and I broke the left leg so I too haven't driven since Aug1. It's pretty scary to be a single mom living in a house w/ a kid-- she is doing all she can to help but has school work too and can't drive, pay bills, etc. No drivers in the house in case of an emergency. . I too found the wheelchair helpful in being about to retrieve and carry things. Also use a walker w/a bicycle basket strapped to te front for carrying.
Had an appt scheduled in NYC tmow morning for a 2nd opinion but had to cancel of course because of the storm.
This is a life-changing event-- no doubt about that. My future is suddenly completely different than I had imagined it up until Aug 2. But on the days when I go to PT and the table next to me has a double amputee, the table behind me has a single amputee and the table in front of me has a stroke victim or a Parkinson's patient.... I imagine their futures are pretty altered from what they once envisioned too. Cherish whatever you can, while you can.
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