Man, did I have a difficult weekend...! (whine thread)

[Karl Stall]

Shit.

4 AM Saturday morning, I was awakened to a crash, which was my 13-1/2 yr.-old Australian Shepherd, Baker, having a massive stroke. Cried my eyes out until 8AM, had the girls say goodbye to him, and took him to have him put down -

then the vet says that he might recover in a week although he can't walk, shit, pee, or anything. I am trying to use a turkey baster (sp) to give him water - now, all he can do is roll in circles - so sad (I will put up a sweet tribute thread to him should he not make the week). Hopefully he makes it a bit longer, but he's winding down.

Our baby has been sick all week with fever and doesn't sleep for shit.

Trying to start a new business and am getting luke-warm help from two of the critical people that I need support from...

Wife gets mad at me this morning - completely flips out, reminding me of last winters travails.

We went on the river with her mom, dad, sister, two brother-in-laws, and 5 kids today (wakeboarding was solid = bright spot), then after dropping off most of the crew, I hit a sand bar at 40 mph and ripped the drive shaft completely out of the bottom of the boat, sheered off the rudder and practically sank. Fortunately some dude in a big cruiser saved my ass and towed me back to a marina right as the ship started to go under.

Digi camera ruined, and now my wife is questioning the safety of being a river rat...again, and is pissed, oh and she has a migraine and 102 fever.

I just stepped in dog shit trying to get my dog to go outside and pee.

Well, after a stressful, costly weekend, all I can say is that my girls rock and my 4-yr. old was an absolute angel today - she just makes everything else seem insignificant, which it is, if a bit frustrating. At least no one got hurt - hopefully baker's condition improves.

[end rant] thanks for listening, and for maybe caring. I just had to put this down somewhere regardless of what a gay, cry-baby I am... sorry.. Soon, we ski

[interloper]

It can only get better. Hope your pup pulls through. Good Luck.

[Pinner]

In the absence of an opportunity to buy you a drink, I'll have one in commiseration.

Buck up, camper. It's a blip.

[truth]

Sending posi vibes your way brother.

You're not in it alone. Friday night was my brother's engagement party. It was held the Grand Victoria Riverboat Casino (my bro is mad craps fiend). After watching the Cubs win we head to the casino where I go on to lose $400.00 on the craps table after being up $1200.00. On the drive home I start feeling horrible and by the time I'm in my casa I'm doubled over. Spent the night praying to to porcelin god and woke up with a wicked fever that finally broke about an hour ago.

On the good side, the Bears finally won a game and the Cubs are looking solid (finges, toes and testes crossed).

Call me if ya need to vent.

[Pinner]

Originally posted by truth
I go on to lose $400.00 on the craps table after being up $1200.00.

On the drive home I start feeling horrible and by the time I'm in my casa I'm doubled over. Spent the night praying to to porcelin god and woke up with a wicked fever that finally broke about an hour ago.

Dude. You're allergic to losing at the casino. ME TOO!

[iceman]

Whoa. Hang in there, fellas.

All the rest of the stuff sounds fixable, I sure hope that the dog is too.

I had two Aussies, they were brothers. Three years ago I lost one at 12 and the next year I lost the other one at 13.

That sucked hard , and I feel for you. They're great dogs.

[Ted Stryker]

Bummer dude.
Can I offer you an alias or something?

[TJ.Brk]

Man dude I hope things go better for you. I remember last winter. You have the patients of a God. As far as your dog goes. I went through that years ago. I hope your dog pulls through and gives your family many happy days ahead.

[FreakofSnow]

Shit man! Things will turn around for you, keep the chin up. I have aussie too and love her to death. I have a feeling once I am ready to get another dog, it won't be a hard choice on which breed to get. Never have seen such intelligent, loyal and tireless animal. Good luck my brotha

[Red Baron]

KS- Hang in there, man...

[Samwich]

Damn, Karl. That is a shitty weekend to be sure. I feel your pain on a lot of those instances, because I've been through a lot of the same shit, but to have it hit all at once...

I'll toss one back for you today too.

[13]

Oh man, Baker had a stroke?

Hope he, the wife, and the babe start getting better soon. Positive vibes to y'all, bro.

[ak_powder_monkey]

My weekend sucked too actully my last thursday

[bigAK]

the only sure thing about luck is it will change. hang in there dood, karma's on your side for sure...

[truth]

Originally posted by Pinner
Dude. You're allergic to losing at the casino. ME TOO!

Gotta remember to take a Sudafed next time.

[Endlessseason]

Karl, that's quite a weekend, buddy. I read your travails to my wife, and even though she doesn't know anyone on the board (except justjusty and ColdSmoke) it made her really feel bad for you.
But, it's like I told her--other than your poor dog, you'll be able to look back on this post someday and laugh about how improbably bad it all was. At least that's my hope for you.
Time heals all wounds...

[splat]

Gawd, I love dogs...but it's life, Karl; the inevitability of which is the passing. Just remember the outcome of these dark moments is completely within your control to influence by virtue of your reaction. Just for this next few days or week, a little stoicism might reduce the potential for additional disastrous events that sometimes seem to snowball. It's all about your reaction. Consider all that has happpened a test and rise to the occasion. Because you are an awesome dude. And tell the Mrs. I said I love you guys.

[Owens Never Sleeps]

Holy shit. Puts little internet problems in perspective. Crossing my fingers for Baker - I've lost a few dogs and it really sucks. As for the rest, hopefully you are just getting the shit kicked out of you all at once rather that over the long term.

Hope your world gets better man. Let me know if there is anything I can help with.

[bad_roo]

Hang in there, man - sounds like you're riding the crest of a slump.

Just remind me never to get in a boat with you and mfi2000.

[Grange]

As someone who recently had to put down a beloved dog I can understand the pain involved in watching your dog suffer. Now everytime I look at at our other Chessapeake I am constantly reminded of the good times I had with Aspen. The memories definitely make the pain easier to handle. Hopefully she will get better.

[EPSkis]

Yeesh. Rough weekend.

Well, If it makes you feel like you're not alone:

Just found out my Dad's is some pretty rough shape. He's got diabetes & he's the kind of guy who won't tell you he's in pain until he drops. Yeah, well it's happening. He basically lost all feeling in his legs and feet about 2 years ago. All he can feel is PAIN every couple days. Come to find out, he's been falling down the last week or so & when my Mom took him to the Dr. on Friday, they told him he was also having the beginning stages of kidney failure...

My 7 wk. old kitten did SOMETHING - no idea what...Fell off a bed, knocked something over that fell on him....No idea.
Kitten couldn't keep his head up, was rolling all over the place. Took him to the Vet & was informed that he'd suffered some kind of head trauma resulting in brain damage. He had to be put down.

Took my 2 1/2 yr old son out golfing yesterday & going around a corner, he fell outta the f'n cart. Damn near drove over his leg, fortunately, the high speed tumble threw him away from the cart leaving him scared, crying & muddy - but otherwise OK. When he finished crying, he scolded me & told me to go slow. Glad I can chuckle about it now, cuz it coulda been ugly.

[baseWeldr]

that's the tough part of havin a dog, I've been through it a few times and have two now (1 aussie/lab) that might be done skiing with me due to age... hang in there brother...

[Grange]

Originally posted by EPSkis

Took my 2 1/2 yr old son out golfing yesterday & going around a corner, he fell outta the f'n cart. Damn near drove over his leg, fortunately, the high speed tumble threw him away from the cart leaving him scared, crying & muddy - but otherwise OK. When he finished crying, he scolded me & told me to go slow. Glad I can chuckle about it now, cuz it coulda been ugly.

That's lucky. There was a little girl that was killed over the weekend here in a go kart when another driver lost control and rode over her. She wasn't wearing a helmet. I just mention this because when I was a kid I thought go karts were just golf carts designed like a sports car.

[xboat]

karl - wow dude. that was a shitty weekend. hope things get better for ya soon. please don't let the dog suffer any longer than needed. sounds really bad.

that river has tore up many boats this way. so it take it you lost the lower unit? i've been there. hit a log on the river in a friends boat and took the lower unit completely off. only thing holding it on was the braided metal oil lines. bilge starts pumping right away - yeah, scart shit mang hey, that's what insurance is for.

good luck this week, dude.

[meatdrink9]

D'oh.

Damn that sounds like a rough weekend dude. Really rough as I know a number of the incidences this weekend involve things which bring a lot of joy into your life.

Good luck with Baker, the new biz, calming the Mrs, the boat, etc..

Baker's an amazing dog, I hope he pulls through, but your first reaction might be the best (for him).

Clue me in to where and when you'll be west this winter. Feel like Alta over Thanksgiving?

Oh yeah, I think Jenny is moving too Denver in a couple of weeks. Mindy's pumped. We can all get together when you guys are out this way.