Flykdog says it more succinctly than I ever could.
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actually, flykdog said it wrong. shmoe posted about the suicide, and didn't post for quite some time after that. The collection started before he posted a third time. And none of his early posts were fishing for money, and I think it's disgusting to imply they were. Shame on you, and shame on flykdog. And I can't believe you just made me sound like my mother.
WHile I think the thread should stay unless the coward deletes it, I also think posting the thread was a cowardly act.
razorslug and Kya said it better than I could.
People should get the fuck out of their National Enquirer mindset. We all love a soap opera, the gossip in me wants to know, but I'm adult enough and compassionate enough to know that isn't important. Unless the guy murdered his wife, unless you can show me that he's not really grieving over the loss of his wife, I don't give a flying fuck about any other details.
Last edited by Danno; 02-20-2007 at 02:43 AM.
Ditto. Thank you.
The only possible exception being: if his veiled remarks re: a double-life led by his wife had anything other than truth backing them up, it would add another layer of sadness on top of an already sad situation. Unless he says this is the case, I am not going to doubt him.
I believe this thread, and the other, should remain.
I am in the "delete by original poster" camp. but I would not mind The Suit outing the cowardly "Alias". Or better yet one of the geeks figuring him out. The DefJef massacre will look like a church social in comparison.
I mostly take offense with the "Alias" thinking he is the moral conscience of TGR.
That was my take on it too. I remember the early musings about a collection and I have no recollection of any mention of financial difficulties until the thread discussing a collection was well and truly established. Initially flowers for the funeral were mentioned then the discussion amongst posters was for other ways to help. Schmoe's opinion was not known at this time.
I'm a kind but sceptical British ol' bag but I have absolutely no misgivings about Schmoe's intentions. He has a right to see that thread. Hopefully he'll ignore the misguided nonsense and see how much support he has.
I'd be a lier to say I haven't speculated and a few of the maggots over here know my thoughts but I would never want Schmoe to feel pressured to air personal and painful information. I'm admire the dignity of his response.
Schmoe, you can use the £10.34 (20 bucks to you lot) I donated to use as you wish. Beer, food, ski porn, whatever to make you feel a bit better. I hope to meet you when I come to Utah in July.
Just my 2 pence (of course).
Mrs R
Monty Python's version of the cougar phenomenon:
"This is a frightened city. Over these houses, over these streets hangs a pall of fear. Fear of a new kind of violence which is terrorizing the city. Yes, gangs of old ladies attacking defenseless, fit young men".
quit hiding behind an alias
if you have questions or comments that you'd like answered, ask Doug privately
If you have to be an attention grabbing whore, be man or woman enough to use your real screenname
For sure, you have to be lost to find a place that can't be found, elseways everyone would know where it was
I agree. The guy never asked for anything, we just ponied up to help a fella out. Sometimes in life it is best not to ask questions, the only thing needed is to be present and listen.
My $.02
If concerned maggots had any real damning information - it should either be aired or if truly criminal taken to the authorities. If not and all you have is fucking rumors 3rd, 4th, ...,Nth hand then shut up.
Although I agree that creating a censorship by the masses or mass hysteria is bad form. That is one of the things that has stood out historically here - lack of hands on moderation.
I am not going to bump the other thread, but I dont see any reason to tie up the collection because of it, I am still cutting a check as soon as the withdrawl clears paypal. If anyone has a problem with that, you know how to reach me.
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The only thing that sucks more than censorship/moderation is people whining for it. It's not how this place hopefully will ever operate.
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I don't like the thread either, but I am opposed to the deletion by suit. If anyone is going to delete it, it should be the concerned maggots guy..
Just to be on the record, the "Concerned Maggot" does not speak for me (as a member of the "TGR Community"). Whoever it is is a PUSSY. The whole alias thing was funny for a while over the last few years and comes in handy to "zing" someone but the level this has gone to is ridiculous. Airing personal life issues like this is none of our business. If you guys who like this shit want that kind of action, go read the National Enquirer about Anna Nicole Smith. If Doug wants to go put all the money down on a Sea-Monkey race, I don't care. My cash donation was a token of support only, not a donation to dig up every bit of dirt in a strangers life so we could enjoy the pain and feel better about our own lives.
Too late to delete and the Suit should not have to do it, it's not his role here. The poster should use their real name in the apology. Better yet, learn to speak to someone face to face. PUSSY.
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water mains didn't break, would it be my responsibility to fix them then?
WOULD IT!?!"
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Mayor of Washington, DC
Last edited by Free Range Lobster; 02-20-2007 at 08:31 AM.
The only thing worse than the feeling that you are going to die is the realization that you probably won't.
At this point, we already know that schmoe has read the thread in question, and has chosen to answer via PM to the OP and to anyone who wishes to discuss the situation via PM. In my mind, this makes schmoe even more of an honorable and brave human being than he has already shown in this tragic situation. I can't imagine finding the will to answer these kinds of questions in the middle of grieving for my soul mate.![]()
I have never been one to care about gossip. I think gossip sucks, even when it's based on reality. Who really cares? It's none of my business.I sent a donation because I wanted to help a fellow snowslider remember that there is good in the world and that there are so many wonderful reasons to make it through even the darkest times. I don't care how he uses the money I sent.
As for the tasteless thread in question, I think schmoe is handling it the way he sees fit and he has my support.
I do think the OP should get a grip and delete it. I also think someone is going to out the OP, if the OP doesn't do it himself/herself. Better to out yourself and make a public apology than to have the community hand you your photochopped ass on a platter.
I hope I got some of Basom's awesomeness third hand when I ate my Ahi Tuna Salad next to Stump. I'm pretty certain I did.
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