'Cheatin' Hearts' a poll of maggot infidelity

[Yet Another Alias]

Yep, I'm an alias. I've cheated many times over a 2 year period.

First, let's get some definitions straight. If you're not married, you're not cheatin'. Period. You can call it a serious relationship or whatever, but if you're not willing to take it to the altar or the judge it's not. Lusting over (not just thinking someone is hot) another is not cheating. Kissing and other touching falls into a gray area, a pretty damn dark gray area but nonetheless anything other than actual penetration somewhere (or a hand job) I wouldn't classify as cheating. If you start calling all those things cheating, from all the flirting, ass grabbing, and extended dirty hugs I've done; hell I've cheated about a million times.

Now onto my story, I had been married about 8 years with two young children. Times were hard, at home, at work, financially and otherwise. My wife was ready to leave me. I was in the process of being sued for right at a million bucks in a case that I had some degree of culpability in. I wasn't getting any at home for various reasons, some of which were valid and others weren't. (IMHO)

I took a new job and was over a whole department of women, two of which were roughly tens years younger than I and very attractive. Flirtatious doesn't begin to describe them. We were all just friendly and flirting to start with, but that progressed to "What kind of panties do you think I'm wearing? Wanna find out?" , some sitting on my lap and grinding around on me, being in one of the records rooms and one of them saying "You know, we could just lock the door and you could bend me over right here, nobody would know." They were such naughty little things, and they started to become all I could think about.

Both of these girls were ready to go, and they made it known in no uncertain terms. I went out on a "camping trip" (or so I told my wife) one weekend and the 3 of us went out. We wound up back at one the girls apartments, the other was married at the time I'm figuring her husband wouldn't have liked me showing up at there house. We all wound up fucking our brains out, half drunk, and high on coke and X. It was fantastic.

We hooked up several more times over the next 2 years, all together and each girl separately. My wife accused me of cheating numerous times, but I denied it. Actually the specific times that she was accusing me of being out with one of them (I'm guessing that the threesome thing was probably beyond her even thinking of), I was actually just out with the guys partying. I was smarter than to be out with them and making it look suspicious in some way.

After a while things started to get back to normal at home, we went to a marriage counselor for a while (I still denied everything), but the bottom line is my wife really decided that she wanted to work things out and once that happened, I decided that things were worth working on.

I guess on some kind of moral level I do reget cheating on my wife, but I really don't ever think about it too much. OTOH, DAMN, I fulfilled some of my lifelong fantasies with those two girls. They were naughty, naughty, naughty.

I'm just glad some busybody didn't take it upon themselves to tell my wife about it. That would've been the last straw, it would have broken our family apart and two innocent children would now be from a divorced home.

We just moved into a newerand bigger house like my wife has always wanted last year, and recently celebrated our eighteenth wedding anniversary.

Uncle Frank, no matter how well meaning you may be. It's Nunnaya Bizeness.

[Yet Another Alias]

Also, I fully realize that post was worthless without pictures.

[flatlander#2]

I squeezed the lid right off my diet coke. I think I just cheated reading that.

[Hutch]

Schwing! Cheating sounds fun!

[slim]

I'm pretty sure that post was just copied from Penthouse Forum.

[GoldMember]

I'm pretty sure that post was just copied from Penthouse Forum.

Okay by me. I didn't have to buy the magazine.

[Bodhi]

...my high school sweetheart broke up with me tuesday. I found out on Wednesday that he has been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks.

(well, I guess he's been doing it since the weekend of the Mammoth Mini! the bastard. )

i've felt pretty shitty the last couple of days...

That just fucking sucks...but you are moving away anyway--be good for you to get out of the pit that is Riverside. Whole thing might be a blessing in disguise for you, even though it doesn't seem like it right now.

If you need anyone to talk to, or a drinking buddy, just get on the 215 south and give me a call this w/e...we are having a big barbeque Sunday evening (after 5pm) if you'd like to join us...

Btw, I think I left you a drunk message the other night (called just about everyone in my contacts), hopefully it wasn't bad timing or that I said anything dumb-ass-ish...

Oh, and btw, "lunch" really does bite sometimes.

peace,
D.

[frozenwater]

Ok, the bidding process starts at $100.00 - You can either bid to find out who the maggot behing "yet another alias" is, or if you are the alias you can pay me to keep it secret.






----Oh man that would be good. Friday's at work and all, ignore frozen, drinking margaritas & posting while at work - so hot right now.

[girlski0912]

Erica- ouch...for reals that just sucks more than anything. I am really really sorry. As if breaking up doesn't hurt enough, to have that added element of injury doesn't help the healing process.

Why do people have to LIE????? How can you say that you love someone for 9 years and then not even respect them enough to break up first before you start seeing someone else? What bullshit.

And, let the record reflect that if someone EVER cheats on me, Monique has my back through and through (MY avatar is NOT a cheater...sorry Kiki, but I am the only Jessica Rabbit in these here parts.)

[GoldMember]

"Why do people have to LIE?????"

Because they're cowards and can't face the other person. If they weren't cowards, they'd have the rocks to face the other person directly.

[snowdreamer]

Yep, I'm an alias. I've cheated many times over a 2 year period.

First, let's get some definitions straight. If you're not married, you're not cheatin'. Period. You can call it a serious relationship or whatever, but if you're not willing to take it to the altar or the judge it's not. Lusting over (not just thinking someone is hot) another is not cheating. Kissing and other touching falls into a gray area, a pretty damn dark gray area but nonetheless anything other than actual penetration somewhere (or a hand job) I wouldn't classify as cheating. If you start calling all those things cheating, from all the flirting, ass grabbing, and extended dirty hugs I've done; hell I've cheated about a million times.

Now onto my story, I had been married about 8 years with two young children. Times were hard, at home, at work, financially and otherwise. My wife was ready to leave me. I was in the process of being sued for right at a million bucks in a case that I had some degree of culpability in. I wasn't getting any at home for various reasons, some of which were valid and others weren't. (IMHO)

I took a new job and was over a whole department of women, two of which were roughly tens years younger than I and very attractive. Flirtatious doesn't begin to describe them. We were all just friendly and flirting to start with, but that progressed to "What kind of panties do you think I'm wearing? Wanna find out?" , some sitting on my lap and grinding around on me, being in one of the records rooms and one of them saying "You know, we could just lock the door and you could bend me over right here, nobody would know." They were such naughty little things, and they started to become all I could think about.

Both of these girls were ready to go, and they made it known in no uncertain terms. I went out on a "camping trip" (or so I told my wife) one weekend and the 3 of us went out. We wound up back at one the girls apartments, the other was married at the time I'm figuring her husband wouldn't have liked me showing up at there house. We all wound up fucking our brains out, half drunk, and high on coke and X. It was fantastic.

We hooked up several more times over the next 2 years, all together and each girl separately. My wife accused me of cheating numerous times, but I denied it. Actually the specific times that she was accusing me of being out with one of them (I'm guessing that the threesome thing was probably beyond her even thinking of), I was actually just out with the guys partying. I was smarter than to be out with them and making it look suspicious in some way.

After a while things started to get back to normal at home, we went to a marriage counselor for a while (I still denied everything), but the bottom line is my wife really decided that she wanted to work things out and once that happened, I decided that things were worth working on.

I guess on some kind of moral level I do reget cheating on my wife, but I really don't ever think about it too much. OTOH, DAMN, I fulfilled some of my lifelong fantasies with those two girls. They were naughty, naughty, naughty.

I'm just glad some busybody didn't take it upon themselves to tell my wife about it. That would've been the last straw, it would have broken our family apart and two innocent children would now be from a divorced home.

We just moved into a newerand bigger house like my wife has always wanted last year, and recently celebrated our eighteenth wedding anniversary.

Uncle Frank, no matter how well meaning you may be. It's Nunnaya Bizeness.

Please post when Karma bites you in the ass.

[Tippster]

I honestly think that people forget the "HONOR" part of their wedding vows. "Yet Another Alias" you're a cheating asshole, but you're not unique.

I wonder how you'd feel if you found out your wife did something similar.

[bklyn]

He had a chance to salvage his marriage and he did. I'm sure that wouldn't have happened if some well meaning person stopped by to say... I hear your husband is having 3somes with coworkers!

[Jim S]

Please post when Karma bites you in the ass.

"Bites"? You mean "cum"



BTW, does sex with a minor or illegal immigrant, or better yet-- an under-age illegal immigrant--- count as cheating?





(...kidding)

[yogachik]

Erica, if it makes you feel any better, just know he'll do the same to her, and the one after that...

Alias person who's been married 18 years. I don't believe that story for one minute. I do, however, believe you've cheated. I also believe you will again.

[MacDaddy]

Please post when Karma bites you in the ass.

Why do some folks feel the need to be on the "holier than thou pedestal"?

Listen up boy, the guy pops up as an alias, and shares a story (gives a confesion) that 95% of you could never experience unless you paid for it, and you tell him to fuck off because....? why ?

easy there, dude...life goes on.

[snowsprite]

I honestly think that people forget the "HONOR" part of their wedding vows. "Yet Another Alias" you're a cheating asshole, but you're not unique.

I wonder how you'd feel if you found out your wife did the something similar.

I'm guessing "Very turned on!" would not be the answer if 2 young hot studs from her workplace were grinding on his wife, and giving her the old in-out while on X and coke.

tee-hee!

Sprite

[13]

Is it cheating if your girlfriend is a lesbian and she hooked up with another girl without you?

[Jim S]

Is it cheating if your girlfriend is a lesbian and she hooked up with another girl without you?

That's not cheating; that's blessed

[Tippster]

That's not cheating; that's blessed

Without him is cheating.

[Canuk]

Why do some folks feel the need to be on the "holier than thou pedestal"?

I was kind of wondering the same thing.

Cheaters suck. But so do self righteous dicks who feel it is their place to judge others.

This 'if you love someone enough, you would never cheat on them' stuff is a pretty pie in the sky, utopian idea as well. People make mistakes. Some people make little mistakes, and unfortunately, some other people make HUGE misakes. In my very humble opinion, the 'if you love someone enough' part comes into play after the fact - do you love them enough to fess up? Do you love them enough to take responsibility for your actions, and not pass the buck or make excuses? Do you love them enough to accept the concequences?

When everything is shit, and your world is falling apart, and the hardest work that you will ever face in your life is staring you in the face, that is where the 'love' for the other person comes into play.

Don't get me wrong, I hate cheating. HATE IT. But I don't hate cheaters. By my definition of cheating, I have cheated (some of you might agree that what I did is cheating, some might not as there was no sex, or happy endings or anything). I don't blame my actions on anything, or anyone, other than myself. I made a choice - a horrible, hurtfull, stupid choice, but a choice none the less. I take responsibility for it, and I have paid the price (although not as high a price as some) for it.

Leopards can, and do, change their spots. I did.

[Jim S]

Without him is cheating.

I stand corrected.
I was so stoked I didn't read the last part of his post.

[snowdreamer]

Why do some folks feel the need to be on the "holier than thou pedestal"?

Listen up boy, the guy pops up as an alias, and shares a story (gives a confesion) that 95% of you could never experience unless you paid for it, and you tell him to fuck off because....? why ?

easy there, dude...life goes on.

MacDaddy I'm a woman. If you read back a few post you will find my
ex-husband cheated on me. You want to call me bitter go for it. When
married I had more than a few chances to cheat on my husband and
I never did.

Call me holier than thou if you must, I didn't tell him to
fuck off, I welcomed his post when his wife cheats on him. That is all.

[slim]

So if all the cheater's significant others put out like the dirty sluts hooking up with Yet Another Alias would there still be cheating?

[MacDaddy]

Call me holier than thou if you must, I didn't tell him to
fuck off, I welcomed his post when his wife cheats on him. That is all.

Point taken but the "double bird" in my symbology class meant fuck off. I was tested on it!

I'm understand your opinion now. It would be a fantastic CR would it not?!
Snowdreamer, I picked on you because I was sick and tired of folks acting like Saint Mother Teresa (btw has she been Canonized yet?) when they choose to flame somebody about lack of honor, & cheating, and how terrible some one is for doing so. sorry if you care!

We have all done things perhaps far worse than cheating, and I subscribe to Jesus' little speech about throwing the first stone. (not that I believe Jesus was the first to say it or anything, he just made it pop thanks to gospel.)

I'm in no way perfect, and I have been cheated on, and I over reacted, but who wouldn't, (she was a cover model for "low Rider Magazine"), so once I recovered, I realized with a big , that I at least got to go there! That bitch!

I digress.


For me this thread has been an excellent study/ synopisis/ biopsy on human relationships.

and I don't care what SheRa thinks, I believe J.A.A. story!

Those kinda things happen at the darnedest time I tell ya! no winky necessary