good girlfriends

**Samwich** · 12-10-2003, 06:04 PM

I've had my eye on this one girl for a long time, but she had issues, so she couldn't (wouldn't) date anyone, or even just hook up with anyone. Today, i talked to her for a while, and now we're going out. The best part is, I asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend, and she said that it depends on when i'm skiing, because she doesn't want to get in the way of that. She told me that she understands how important skiing is and that it's cool with her if she's second priority.

She's awesome.

**Woodsy** · 12-10-2003, 06:06 PM

Originally posted by Samwich
She told me that she understands how important skiing is and that it's cool with her if she's second priority.

do not expect this to last
or else yo are one of many along for the ride

**Telephil** · 12-10-2003, 06:29 PM

Originally posted by Woodsy
do not expect this to last
or else yo are one of many along for the ride

Agreed, been there.

**joshbu** · 12-10-2003, 06:31 PM

Originally posted by Woodsy
do not expect this to last
or else yo are one of many along for the ride

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

If you are cool with a very chill sort of "fuck buddy" type relationship, and are OK with her doing her own thing with a couple other dudes, then that could be ideal. (From a sex v. skiing balance standpoint.)

You might run the risk of her getting into some kind of more serious relationship, but if your cool about it, she may end out back in your bed when it's all over anyways.

OJ · 12-10-2003, 06:51 PM

there's an old saying about when something looks too good to be true.....

but good luck anyway.

**divegirl** · 12-10-2003, 06:55 PM

Yeah, I have to agree, this won't last for long unless she's ultra cool. From a female perspective, being second priority sucks after a while. Maybe she skis? Or is willing to learn with a positive attitude?

And if you're saying she has/had issues about dating you or anyone for that matter, then I would definitely go the fuck buddy route. After all, she has agreed to date you. Hopefully she's down with that...it can be fun, that's for sure... It's probably just what she needs right now.

**truth** · 12-10-2003, 06:56 PM

Samwich...you're 14 years old

don't sweat the details...way too many women yet to try on in your life.

**bossass** · 12-10-2003, 06:56 PM

Originally posted by joshbu
Not that there's anything wrong with that.

If you are cool with a very chill sort of "fuck buddy" type relationship, and are OK with her doing her own thing with a couple other dudes, then that could be ideal. (From a sex v. skiing balance standpoint.)

You might run the risk of her getting into some kind of more serious relationship, but if your cool about it, she may end out back in your bed when it's all over anyways.

Joshbu,

SHHHHHHHH. (the kid's only like 12). He meant make-out and hug Buddy, Samwich.

**dipstik** · 12-10-2003, 06:59 PM

Originally posted by Samwich
she said that it depends on when i'm skiing, because she doesn't want to get in the way of that. ...and that it's cool with her if she's second priority.

Translation: If you dont do anything with me this weekend and I am not your first priority, your not getting any, ever.

I could be wrong though, it's tough to "diagnose" a realtionship when you've never met either person. Do what you think is right though. It's cool that she makes the effort to understand that you have a passion for something else, and your pretty lucky because most women who don't ski wouldn't understand at all.

good luck

edit: you'll be in college this time next year, so it's not gonna last that long anyway, just have fun and maybe you'll end up being good friends or whatever.

**divegirl** · 12-10-2003, 07:01 PM

Originally posted by truth
Samwich...you're 14 years old don't sweat the details...way too many women yet to try on in your life.

Ohm'god, he's 14??? Holy shit. Wait, no, 18, right? Yeah, truth is right. But you're old enough now, right? Just have fun! No seriousness, you're too young!

**Telenater** · 12-10-2003, 07:03 PM

Originally posted by divegirl
Ohm'god, he's 14??? Holy shit. Wait, no, 18, right? Yeah, truth is right. But you're old enough now, right? Just have fun! No seriousness, you're too young!

Open mouth, insert foot.

**britney** · 12-10-2003, 07:21 PM

Originally posted by Samwich
I've had my eye on this one girl for a long time, but she had issues, so she couldn't (wouldn't) date anyone, or even just hook up with anyone. Today, i talked to her for a while, and now we're going out. The best part is, I asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend, and she said that it depends on when i'm skiing, because she doesn't want to get in the way of that. She told me that she understands how important skiing is and that it's cool with her if she's second priority.

She's awesome.

COUGAR ALERT!

did the previous "issues" that kept her from dating you have anything to do with her husband and kids??

and is she still called a "cougar" if her prey is teenagers rather than 20-somethings?

**AntiSoCalSkier** · 12-10-2003, 07:25 PM

Originally posted by britney
and is she still called a "cougar" if her prey is teenagers rather than 20-somethings?

Must resist temptation to make bad Michael Jackson joke.....

**Lumpy** · 12-10-2003, 07:31 PM

Sammy,
The issues don't go away, they just hide for awhile then magnify. Enjoy the newness and get in a little jabbin', but beware anything more.

Blurred Elevens · 12-10-2003, 07:39 PM

Sammy, go skiing. Hit on as many girls as possible. Treat her like she's just another girl, and use her for sex. Don't get one-itis and by all means don't fall in "love"...

Follow these rules and you'll be mobbed by hordes of women including her.

You now owe me $50

(game is to be sold and not told)

**Arty50** · 12-10-2003, 08:06 PM

Originally posted by britney
and is she still called a "cougar" if her prey is teenagers rather than 20-somethings?

Actually I believe that elevates her to queen of the jungle status.

**fez** · 12-10-2003, 08:42 PM

Originally posted by britney

and is she still called a "cougar" if her prey is teenagers rather than 20-somethings?

http://www.courttv.com/graphics/ctv/.../tourneau2.jpg

i think they usually just call them by number.

**Plakespear** · 12-10-2003, 08:48 PM

Sammy, you'll be a lot better off if I don't offer you any advice on women.

I'm just posting to say that divegirl has a great avatar. Although it's probably just another one of phUnk or Meatdrink's multiple personalities.

**Sublime** · 12-10-2003, 08:58 PM

Hey Sammy is this the same asian girl? Don't take this the wrong way but is she or her parents boaters?

**fez** · 12-10-2003, 09:29 PM

Originally posted by Sublime
Hey Sammy is this the same asian girl? Don't take this the wrong way but is she or her parents boaters?

so, what exactly would be the right way to take that?

Blurred Elevens · 12-10-2003, 09:44 PM

Originally posted by Sublime
Hey Sammy is this the same asian girl? Don't take this the wrong way but is she or her parents boaters?

What a fucking racist asshole, stfu dude.

**zion zig zag** · 12-10-2003, 10:23 PM

Originally posted by Blurred Elevens
What a fucking racist asshole, stfu dude.

holy shit, dude! settle down, maybe he just wanted some insight into her potential personality factors

**Samwich** · 12-10-2003, 10:29 PM

Originally posted by divegirl
Ohm'god, he's 14??? Holy shit. Wait, no, 18, right? Yeah, truth is right. But you're old enough now, right? Just have fun! No seriousness, you're too young!

Um... it's a little too late to tell me that I'm 'too young.' Thanks for the concern though. Don't worry, I'm not emotionally scarred by it or anything.

And just to explain our relationship: we've been really good friends for a while, and we hook up every once in a while, and we've wanted each other forever... neither of us know why we didn't get together sooner. But basically, she is one of the coolest girls i know.

Sublime: no, neither of her parents are boaters. What would be the right way to take that? I'm curious to know.

Anyway, i started this thread mostly because i'm just really happy about this whole relationship thing... i have been into the love em and leave em philosophy for a while, but it gets old now and again, and it's nice to settle down, if only for a couple months. Getting girls takes a lot of hard work when you're as ugly as me.

**seldon** · 12-10-2003, 10:39 PM

and keeping them takes a lot of hard work if you're as stupid as me

but seriously, i was amazed... gf from 2 years ago called me up and invited me somewhere. scary....

**DINMS** · 12-10-2003, 10:41 PM

*Cut to Sam in 2 weeks* My girlfreind grabbed me by the ear, knee'd (sp?) me in the gonads, dumped me on the floor crying in the lunch line today while I was tring to get a extra banana. *Cut back to curent time*