THE BDSM SEX DUNGEON TRIP REPORT THREAD (NSFW)

[tgapp]

since we're in the dead of summer and my achilles is fucked and i can't do very much, i thought i would continue in my longstanding tradition of posting completely unrelated and unanticipated trip reports to the padded room. a brief recap of some of my other TR's, in case you are bored as hell:

coffee roasting
the "trip" report thread
organ donation trip report (i still need to finish the other parts in this one, sorry)

for today's edition, i'll be taking you degenerates along with me to one of the premier, publicly available BDSM sex dungeons in the united states, full of the most amazing selection of any sex toy you could ever imagine (and many that you can't), in a beautifully-curated space. so, strap in (get it??), we're going along for a ride.

a couple ground rules first - in kink or play, we always negotiate (set the rules) before engaging. if you don't wanna learn about kink (or see some fucking cool-ass kink furniture), then you can see yourself out. don't let the door hit you where the good Mistress split you.

1. this is a kink and sex positive thread. homophobia, transphobia, and kinkshaming have no place here - get the fuck out and shut the fuck up if you plan on cunting this up with some lame-ass hatespeech or judgemental bullshit. go be a piece of shit somewhere else. if something isn't your preference - if you think it's gross or weird or whatever - either a. shut the fuck up about it (preferred option), or b. if you feel like you *really* need to share your opinion about something, you can always say: "that's not my preference". see how easy that is?

2. while this thread is NSFW (inb4danno complains), i'm not gonna be posting pictures of my bumhole or my partner's bumhole or whatever. calm your tits. and - while i'm happy to answer some questions about my/our sexuality, that's also really not the point here. but - #4

3. one of the goals of this thread is kink and sex education. i'm happy to recommend books, resources, and other avenues for exploring things, etc., since good sex is awesome, and we should all have more of it. my (our) philosophy is that sex is both practice and play - it should be fun, affirming, growth promoting, and enjoyable for everyone!

4. finally, a brief glossary of terms might help all you wankers who have never done anything other than Missionary sex in your jesus jammies (honestly that sounds kinky as hell, i'm not judging!)

BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) is a sexual practice whereby *consenting* individuals agree to assume (or play) certain roles - the most common of which being Dominant and submissive (D&s for short, the s is always lower case), or topping and bottoming.

D&s vs topping and bottoming - D&s generally implies a power dynamic, where one person voluntarily surrenders power to the other, while topping and bottoming just refers to the division where someone (the top) is giving whatever treatment (spanks, tickles, orgasms, whatever), and the other person (the bottom) receives such treatment. in a top and bottom dynamic, there are no honorifics (Sir, Mistress, Goddess, etc), and generally very little humilation or "power" play. it's almost always purely physical.

Switching - is when the roles of D/s or top & bottom switch, either during or between scene play. Similarly, people will describe themselves as "tops", "bottoms", or "switches" depending on what role they like to play (there are a million other descriptors too, this list isn't exhaustive). Both my partner and I are switches.

Impact play- spanking, whipping, flogging, etc. Lots of forms of this.

A "scene" - is a pre-negotiated play time between two or more people. Before the scene starts, we always negotiate as equals. A scene can be as simple as a one off spanking scene with the negotiation as simple as "I want you to bend me over before we make love and spank my ass", or as complex as a multi-year, 24/7 power exchange where both parties enter (legally non-binding) contracts and maintain the scene for years or their lifetime. Scenes can always be re-negotiated inside of them, and we also use either safewords or a green/yellow/red light system to check in. Consent can *always* be withdrawn, at any time, by any party.

RACK - Risk Aware, Consensual Kink is a framework for engaging with things that could be potentially dangerous or harmful, but doing so knowingly and intentionally. There are other frameworks, notably SSC (safe, sane, and consensual), but RACK is my favorite. read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Risk-a...onsensual_kink

sounds good? let's go on a trip together!

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for our first anniversary, my partner found a full sex dungeon that could be rented out overnight. after going through a lengthy screening process (they wanted references from people in the community, since this place has a lot of toys that could be potentially dangerous in the wrong hands), she was able to book this space. the way it worked was - the night of our booking, we were able to access it at 8:00pm, but the address was only given to us at 7:30 pm that evening.

the building itself was tucked away, and it took us a second to see the big red neon street sign - a very classy way of subtly advertising what it is.

[tgapp]

ON TO THE NEXT ROOM! (originally this was part 3 of 3 but TRG shit the bed and now i'm gonna repost the second half last)



of all the furniture in the house, this was easily the most impressive - a full suspension bed, complete with two winches, a ton of hardpoints at the top, a built in cage below, and quick tie hooks (to easily look rope around all along the frame of the bed (along with traditional hardpoints for clipping things to)





obviously all sorts of clippy things to go with it, and instructions on how to safely use them



this feels like it belongs in the quiver pic re-run thread - oh my, look at that collection.



the mind races. both useful and brutal. so much chain, so little time.



across from the suspension bed (the top of it is visible in this frame) there was a collection of gimp hoods for every occasion and mirrors to watch yourself in your new fit!



honestly, probably both of our favorite piece of furniture was this unassuming spanking bench. it's great when playing an extended impact scene, since you can clip your sub to it & allow them to relax with a nice, neutral spine for a few hours of impact (or other) play, since they are left so delightfully exposed. the problem with a lot of impact play is that you need to change up the sub's positioning or it gets mega uncomfortable. this piece was amazing.



a swing. for, you know, swingy things. i thought this would be too....vanilla for us? but we LOVED IT HOLY SHIT. this made everything a million times better. too bad you can't really have it in your house without people asking too many questions. kinda hard to hide.

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a full set of anal hooks - from "big" to "holy shit". all solid, medical grade stainless steel. fuck. so nice.

also there were really strict cleaning protocols (which we followed after play, as evidenced by the cleaner) and then they completely sterilized everything using medical grade equipment after us.



yes Mistress, right away, on to the rest of the space!!



the den/library. not only did they have an amazing collection of toys in this space, they also had a mindblowingly good library. i want them to run a bookclub!

also not pictured was a stripper pole in that room. so cool.



each cabinet was packed to the gills with toys - in this case, eStim/electricity toys. holy fuck these toys are so expensive - each base unit will cost like $400 and then each attachment is another $50-200. amazing.

not pictured: every cabinet in every room had a HUGE selection of dildos and vibes - which you obviously needed to wear a condom with (we brought our own insertable toys)



a FULL sybian kit (cost $50 extra since i'm sure sterilizing it is a bitch). we would 100% have played with this but we ran out of time. ughhhhhh.



love the stained glass artwork





bondage chaise in the bedroom. note all the hardpoints at the bottom of it. versatile, fun piece of furniture.



words to live by

the last part of the space was a kitchen area, both for practical considerations and for play. domestic service is a *huge* kink of a lot of people, so it was fun to see all the cleaning utensils organized and treated just like the other toys:



i'm not normally a fan of keurigs, but i'll make an exception for this one



a whole closet full of cross dressing outfits - men's sized high heels, dresses, etc. fun!!!



that's about it, folks. overall, we had a ton of fun and can't wait to go back. happy to share details about the space (and how to reserve it) for mags that are also into kinky sex. highly, highly worthwhile.





happy to answer any questions, just don't be a transphobe or a dick. big ask for around here, i know.

EDIT TO ADD: the box fan shit the bed and posted my TR all fucked up so i am going to edit the photos in the second part of it and re-post it. sorry

[Meadow Skipper]

Subscribed

[riser4]

Pics aren't working for me. I can't see the shiny new Nuclear-powered XQJ-37 Pan-Sexual Roto-Plooker, before Joe wrecks it.

[Danno]

FKNA!

[ex-powderbroker]

I have that Dyson in black AMA

[tgapp]

I have that Dyson in black AMA

do you wear a cute little skirt when you use it with lock-on high heels and a dildo mouthgag?

[tgapp]

the space had two dedicated dungeon rooms, a full kitchen/laundry space (for domestic scenes), a den (also extremely nicely equipped), and a bed/bedroom (complete with structural hardpoints and a bondage chaise). it also had a lifetime supply of toys!




the first of the dungeon rooms - not pictured is a saint andrew's cross in the corner, as well as a bondage chair. more on those later; the centerpiece of this room is that bondage bed, with the stunning (tilted) mirror above it. if you zoom in you can see there are structural hardpoints both along the mirror frame and around the edges of the bed. it can easily support the weight of multiple people, and it's easy to clip your submissive into the bed or into the wall next to the mirror.


each of the built-in bookcases was FULL of supplies, all fully sterilized and ready for play. nipple clamps, cock and ball torture, rope, clothespins, restraints, you name it. every room was set up with every essential item so in the middle of a scene you never had to "look" for something



the saint andrew's cross in the first room (along with a bondage chair) - each room had an identical cross and an identical set of floggers, paddles, etc, but the next room had some way more fun things as well. this one had been set up with panic snaps - like this:



so that you can release your bottom from the cross even while they are weighting their arms (eg, when you have spanked them so hard they have collapsed and you need to get them off the cross). smart, huh?!



little bondage ball outside the room, so you can lock up your sub while you prep the scene before allowing them into the space



#goals

[ex-powderbroker]

As everyone here knows, I have neither a mouthgag nor mittens - but - my jorts and sandals game is pretty good.

How much does a night in a quality dungeon go for? Any, uhhh, supply chain issues?

[Mazderati]

a swing. for, you know, swingy things. i thought this would be too....vanilla for us? but we LOVED IT HOLY SHIT. this made everything a million times better. too bad you can't really have it in your house without people asking too many questions. kinda hard to hide.

UNO Reverse. You put this in the guest room in plain site to keep visits short.

[JimmyCarter]

Are they on airbnb?

Cool shit man. Love the stained glass ball gag

[tgapp]

As everyone here knows, I have neither a mouthgag nor mittens - but - my jorts and sandals game is pretty good.

How much does a night in a quality dungeon go for? Any, uhhh, supply chain issues?

Space was $500 for a full night (until noon the next day). You can rent individual rooms for cheaper/less time - but for two enthusiasts, $500 is more than worthwhile just to get to try out a fuckton of prohibitively expensive equipment to figure out what makes sense to invest in at home




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[mntlion]

nice TR, thanks

[LegoSkier]

Subscribed. Come to Seattle some time and I can show you the perverted underbelly of this city.
Also reminds me of back in the day when a burner friend worked at kink.com and gave me a tour of the SF Armory. The Fucking Machines workshop was an interesting shop space for sure. They bought lubes by the 50 gallon barrel.

[Supermoon]

Space was $500 for a full night (until noon the next day). You can rent individual rooms for cheaper/less time - but for two enthusiasts, $500 is more than worthwhile just to get to try out a fuckton of prohibitively expensive equipment to figure out what makes sense to invest in at home




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That’s honestly way less than I thought it would be.

Fascinating TR!

[Harry]

So is this the place in Wisconsin Dells ?

[adrenalated]

That’s honestly way less than I thought it would be.

No kidding. Just the investment they obviously made into the place (including what I would assume is a lot of custom-built furniture and such), I would have expected double that.

[Core Shot]

“That’s not my preference”

I’m disappointed they don’t have mormon underwear for a night of hot soaking.

PS. Serious question. It seems that viagra would be required to get your moneys worth.

[riser4]

Clearly you're not a golfer.

[CarlMega]

[QUOTE=tgapp;6909284] just to get to try out a fuckton of prohibitively expensive equipment to figure out what makes sense to invest in at home
Techtalk jong.

[MarcusBrody]

No kidding. Just the investment they obviously made into the place (including what I would assume is a lot of custom-built furniture and such), I would have expected double that.

One of my random day dream careers is fine sex-furniture maker. When I had started wood working I was looking at prices on Etsy to explain to my wife how all the tools I was buying were actually saving money given the cost of dining tables and benches. Spanking benches kind of like the one in the TR but much lower quality popped up with vendors asking $3-500 for something made out of what looked like construction lumber and and JO ANN Fabrics faux leather. Sadly, my dream never came to pass as my son was born soon after and my wood working adventures (and sex life) took a bit of a hiatus.

Fun TR, tgapp. It's not a world I'm a part of, but as a (former) sociologist, I think sex, power dynamics, and the negotiation thereof is fascinating. Plus, I like Judas Priest, so I go for the aesthetic.

[riser4]

Why do I have a certain refrain from Schism echoing around my brain?

[JimmyCarter]

PS. Serious question. It seems that viagra would be required to get your moneys worth.

You don’t always have to be the pitcher.

[tgapp]

You don’t always have to be the pitcher.

this is why switch couples have the most fun. that sex swing was amazing for both of us.

One of my random day dream careers is fine sex-furniture maker. When I had started wood working I was looking at prices on Etsy to explain to my wife how all the tools I was buying were actually saving money given the cost of dining tables and benches. Spanking benches kind of like the one in the TR but much lower quality popped up with vendors asking $3-500 for something made out of what looked like construction lumber and and JO ANN Fabrics faux leather. Sadly, my dream never came to pass as my son was born soon after and my wood working adventures (and sex life) took a bit of a hiatus.

Fun TR, tgapp. It's not a world I'm a part of, but as a (former) sociologist, I think sex, power dynamics, and the negotiation thereof is fascinating. Plus, I like Judas Priest, so I go for the aesthetic.

thanks! yeah seriously i see all of that bondage furniture on etsy and part of me thinks i could make it myself, but then i remember that time when i tried to level a floor with self leveling compound and i come back to reality.

i think, frankly, all sex and interaction have power dynamics, we (kinksters) are just explicit about it and acknowledge it/turn it into a game. when you take a step back to realize that sex is inherently a mental act (born of desire), and not a purely physical act, it changes the lens through which we frame the act.

No kidding. Just the investment they obviously made into the place (including what I would assume is a lot of custom-built furniture and such), I would have expected double that.

seriously. on average, $60/spanker (or flogger), with 30-40 of them in every room, that's $10K JUST in spankers - not to mention all of the (super expensive) eStim shit, the bondage stuff, the fully kitted out sybian, the disposables (stuff that cannot be sanitized to a full medical grade), and the toys that break (which clients are not liable for, interestingly enough), PLUS all the costs of running a hotel (the tea, coffee, water, laundry), PLUS all of the custom bondage furniture...my fucking god.

Subscribed. Come to Seattle some time and I can show you the perverted underbelly of this city.
Also reminds me of back in the day when a burner friend worked at kink.com and gave me a tour of the SF Armory. The Fucking Machines workshop was an interesting shop space for sure. They bought lubes by the 50 gallon barrel.

i mean the SF Armory is the most legendary dungeon play space of all time, i would absolutely kill to gain access to it.

there are certainly better dungeons than this one, but not ones that you can get into unless you're the client of a ProDomme or associated with a formal BDSM school, so to find a play space that we could rent as a buncha amateurs was gold.

and yeah we would love that! gonna try to get her to go up rainier with me next year. we'll see.

[JimmyCarter]

Fucking server fan