Socially, I regretted most everything about coming to CU pretty much all of last year (sophomore year), except for the good friends I made (not many in number compared to what usually happens in college) and the skiing I got to do. Shit was just stagnant. I'm socially inept, and it took me a while to realize that the people you hang out with your freshman year aren't necessarily your friends--they're just people you hang out with whom you may not see again after you no longer live near them. So you're at no disadvantage there... Additionally, for pretty much the entire duration of my freshman year I had a hardcore girlfriend who lived 1400 miles away, so I didn't even bother to meet girls; probably the worst life choice I have ever made. But there are always prospects in your giant classes in your second year and even in the upper level classes as your study continues--that's a plus cuz you know the girls are into the same shit you're into.
I made my decision to come to CU based on a snap judgment visiting the campus one day during a ski trip; I saw the flashy lights of Boulder Freeride and the Ski Bus and the beautiful sorostitutes and this "apparent" outdoor culture and said "YEP! THIS IS FOR ME!" And then I writhed in difficulty to find those exact same people until only recently. (By "these people" I do not mean the friends I have made from TGR; I mean specifically CU students who hold skiing and the outdoors central to their existences and aren't baked out of their noggins).
As of this year--junior year--, I've started (continued?) to find my niche, and friendships that didn't even exist during my freshman year are consolidating. It makes life a lot easier and more enjoyable. If skiing were still basically all I had, I probably wouldn't have made it. But like phish, I'm becoming increasingly glad I didn't go on a whim back to LSU or to CC (the most likely alternative for me). So that's something to consider for staying in Burlington.
Factors involving everything other than platonic friendships considered, CU is great. The weather in Boulder is fantastic, you can get a very fine science (or business) education, and if you have any game at all, you can regularly hook up with any one of the innumerable "unsuspecting young foxes" (so I'm told...) who cavort about constantly. In truth, the [inbounds and specifically regular inbounds] skiing isn't enough to make you come yourself every time you go, but you can do it a lot if you try, and you'd have to be diseased not to have lots of fun doing it. If partying is your thing, then CU is your locale. I've been to two "parties" since the beginning of last semester, so I'm an example that the opposite end of the spectrum exists as well.
My philosophy on CU is that there are ALL kinds of people here that allow for ALL kinds of experiences; it's kind of a "choose your own ending" college. It's so big that it's easy to get lost, but if you steer the right course, even in your second year, you can, should, and will thrive and enjoy the shit out of yourself. Get involved in stuff, talk to people, meet people, go skiing, just DO stuff, and making friends and meeting girls is no problem.
Last edited by Deep Days; 03-13-2008 at 01:56 AM.
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