Did the same thing 11 years ago. Only it was for college. I moved up to the SF Bay Area for school and ended up staying there for work. My entire family still lives in SoCal and I left some amazing friends behind. I'd be lying if I said I don't miss them a lot. After years in the Bay Area, the same thing happened when I moved to Tahoe. There are some great friends I have there too. And now I have a job here, and will settle for a while. Sure I miss hanging out with all the people I left behind, but they're the kind of friends that you just don't lose. Even if you flake on each other and don't talk for 6 months, you can call up and it's like the day you left. No "Long time no see," "What new in your life," "Are you married," high school reunion bs. Just "Let's go out and have a beer." Ya know?
My best advice is to stay in touch. I haven't always been good about that, and I've learned how important it is.
New places lead to new adventures and new friends though. So soak it up and have fun in the new digs. I've found that it's not about the place; it's about the people you meet.
Good luck!
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