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[TahoeJ]

I’m not this guy. People do stupid shit, I do stupid shit, everyone does stupid shit. But I’ve got zero empathy for a guy who thinks his actions were amusing.

Fine, I'll take the bait, asshole.

I married my high school sweetheart, we were together nearly 25 years, had kids, she cheated on me, blah blah blah. I've dated a few women since then. Then I just shared my story of being an idiot (the only amusing part is how dumb I was) and falling into nostalgia as a cautionary tale for others. Then you come at me with some serial cheater bullshit knowing almost nothing about me or clearly confusing me for someone else.

Why don't you crawl back into that cum dumpster of a womb your mother regrets shatting you out of? Fuck you. Maybe realize you're just a piece of shit.

[Supermoon]

The backslide is very common and has for me provided good closure in a couple of instances and once I got kicked out by my exes roommate who started screaming at me when I tried to sneak across the hall to the bathroom. So I guess that provided decent closure as well.

I’m guessing there will be that moment with my STBE as well one day. Hopefully not in as spectacular of fashion as J, but who knows.

[Buzzworthy]

Fine, I'll take the bait, asshole.

I married my high school sweetheart, we were together nearly 25 years, had kids, she cheated on me, blah blah blah. I've dated a few women since then. Then I just shared my story of being an idiot (the only amusing part is how dumb I was) and falling into nostalgia as a cautionary tale for others. Then you come at me with some serial cheater bullshit knowing almost nothing about me or clearly confusing me for someone else.

Why don't you crawl back into that cum dumpster of a womb your mother regrets shatting you out of? Fuck you. Maybe realize you're just a piece of shit.

Thought you blocked me.

[~mikey b]

[riser4]

LOL

[TahoeJ]

Well here's a slight twist after yesterday... via an introduction from a friend she talked to my ex and then forgave me and understands why / how I messed up. Wow, actual empathy, what a novel concept. TGR is definitely a "harden the fuck up / grow a thick skin" zone but always felt like this thread was supposed to be a little bit different, as it has been in the past by most of us participating here. Kudos to those of you who understand that.

[riser4]

So no poopenhausen and three way?

[cat in january]

I think it is still a possibility with forgiveness and empathy.

[TahoeJ]

So no poopenhausen and three way?

Baby steps.

[fatnslow]

So no poopenhausen and three way?

There's a Pornhob genre already for free viewing.

[skiballs]

So no poopenhausen and three way?

Riser always cuts through the BS, gets to the pertinent questions forthwith, I salute you.


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[riser4]

Riser always cuts through the BS, gets to the pertinent questions forthwith, I salute you.


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Why would I want our boy to stroke it to pornhub? I'm rooting for him to get the real thing.

[oftpiste]

I had sex with the ex once. It was the first Christmas post-separation and we tried to act like a family on Christmas Day with the kids by spending it all together. Longtime tradition included gin fizzes (might have contributed to the poor decision) with gift opening. When that was done the boys went for a skate or something and we were left to ourselves.

Next thing I know we're naked and she's on top, and I'm lying there thinking "I have no idea who this person is and this is fucking awful". It was like fucking a complete stranger (not in the fun way) and was rather an eye-opener in getting over it all. I'm an idiot. Needless to say there was no repeat.

I'll provide some fodder for this thread. I've been dating someone amazing for the past year or so. Casual at first, more seriously of late. She's about 10 years younger, extremely attractive, very successful, kind, comes from a family with lots of money (not that it matters, just providing details of what a catch she is). I drop off the kids at my ex-wife's house and there's sort of a mini party going. There are mutual friends there so I stay for a bit and have a "few" drinks and end up fooling around with my ex. Someone who was there knows them both and before I could even confess and try to explain the new lady was already well aware. I'm an idiot.

I guess my point is: old habits die hard. Also: maybe just drop the kids off and leave.

[fatnslow]

I worked with a guy about 30 years ago who's second kid was a product of his STBEW hookups.

[oftpiste]

This is why god gave us vasectomies.

I worked with a guy about 30 years ago whose second kid was a product of his STBEW hookups.

[Danno]

I have had sex with exes, but not the ex that fits in this thread. For her, this is kinda the feeling.

When I left I felt like a raccoon gnawing my foot off to get out of a trap, and that feeling never left.

[TahoeJ]

This is why god gave us vasectomies.

True that, had mine done a few months after my third was born (although recent discussions of a reversal have been in play and I hear it really sucks and if anyone has experience I'd love to hear it). Buddy of mine, who isn't on this forum but has quite a few friends who are and will laugh if they read this, finally goes to get snipped after much debate or delay. Gets it done. A few days later his wife learns it was too late and she's pregnant again. lol... it was a blessing in disguise but somewhat hilarious at the time.

[neufox47]

True that, had mine done a few months after my third was born (although recent discussions of a reversal have been in play and I hear it really sucks and if anyone has experience I'd love to hear it).

Oh man, here I thought banging your X was bad! In that case I hope she has A LOT of family money and is against pre-numps.

[Dantheman]

Well here's a slight twist after yesterday... via an introduction from a friend she talked to my ex and then forgave me and understands why / how I messed up. Wow, actual empathy, what a novel concept. TGR is definitely a "harden the fuck up / grow a thick skin" zone but always felt like this thread was supposed to be a little bit different, as it has been in the past by most of us participating here. Kudos to those of you who understand that.

This is like hanging yourself but the rope breaks.

[XXX-er]

post vasectomy you wana jerk off lots, screw lots with protection cuz there is still a couple doz hot shots in the pipes

[TahoeJ]

This is like hanging yourself but the rope breaks.

Dang, I thought we've always been cool on here and you're someone I wanted to make some turns with next time I'm up BCC (lots of Solitude and Brighton, correct)? Or maybe I'm misreading?

[TahoeJ]

Oh man, here I thought banging your X was bad! In that case I hope she has A LOT of family money and is against pre-numps.

Ha! I'm fine with a pre-nup and will never get married again without one. Damn, you share some shit on here and the wolves come out. I guess this is the old TGR I loved, so I can't complain.

[gaijin]

Nah, that's just the noisy ones, mate.

Most of us are quiet. But I'll drop this note here to remind you that we're not all judgmental. Contrarily, I have a rule I routinely preach to my kids-- Never judge love. Most people are just trying to be happy. Their choices might not be your choices, but they're doing their best.

I sometimes drop into this thread just to read what people are going through because my wife and I had a rough couple of years around 2017-18. We're great now, but stuff takes work. And that doesn't mean we're immune.

TRG is great for a lot of reasons. One of them is people I don't know, but respect somehow, calling me a whiny little bitch when I am one. Because I have been one around here.

I also like that you can all call each other fuckers and nearly throw punches but then sit down like bros at the bar.

[Buzzworthy]

I’ll tuck my tail. I was wrong, an Asshole and it was uncalled for. I apologize and I’ve learned a lesson. Fucking asshole is more like it. No excuse.

[senior researcher]

Pics or it didn't happen.