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[GoldMember]

Newport?

[Danno]

I was not here for most of the AKPM stuff, but my impression of Patrick was more of a guy that would rather fish that grow up. Actually, someone who would rather fish than do anything else.

I guess I am struggling to see how that rises anywhere near the level of shit that is normally flung around this place, nor shit that I get.

The difference is probably a nuance of social interaction that I don't understand.

I think some of the issue/confusion here is that Foggy may be assuming you know more about AKPM than you do. As he notes, AKPM has shared many struggles on this board (and been shit on a lot here), far more than just "a guy that would rather fish that grow up." But perhaps you don't know that history, so your statement shouldn't be read in that context. Moreover, while what you said was a bit harsh, I think it was nothing compared to the shit that others have given AKPM, so perhaps there's a bit of a double standard working here (as in, people who get shit on here and complain about it shouldn't shit on others here, but if you don't get shit on here or don't complain about it, you're free to be as harsh as you want). I also think there's some double standard in that what a guy says about AKPM is viewed differently than what a girl says about AKPM.

[mtngirl79]

One of those towns in Pend Oreille. Seriously. I'm not going to find out some old high school teacher or someone who knows my dad posts on TGR.

[mtngirl79]

do I really complain too much about being shit on? I pretty much take it. I'm a strange social outcast person that doesn't really fit in anywhere. I expect to get shit on.

[Danno]

do I really complain too much about being shit on? I pretty much take it. I'm a strange social outcast person that doesn't really fit in anywhere. I expect to get shit on.

actually no, fair point, generally you don't complain about that re TGR, though other people complain about that on your behalf. You do complain about how life shits on you.

[Foggy_Goggles]

I'm a little different. If I wouldn't say it to someones face, I ain't gonna say it on TGR. I've got a bit of an abrasive personality in real life that I'm sure is the same on the internet. Listen, I'm socially retarded myself. That's my I try and treat people with respect because that's how I like to be treated. Whether you "know" APKM has nothing to do with it. Until you have reason to act otherwise, I suggest treating people with compassion. If you want to fling shit, that's your business. But own it. If you wouldn't look them in the face and say it. Don't say it here.

[BmillsSkier]

So did the family use public transport to get rid of the monkey?

[mtngirl79]

no public transportation in Pend Oreille County.

[mtngirl79]

I'm a little different. If I wouldn't say it to someones face, I ain't gonna say it on TGR. I've got a bit of an abrasive personality in real life that I'm sure is the same on the internet. Listen, I'm socially retarded myself. That's my I try and treat people with respect because that's how I like to be treated. Whether you "know" APKM has nothing to do with it. Until you have reason to act otherwise, I suggest treating people with compassion. If you want to fling shit, that's your business. But own it. If you wouldn't look them in the face and say it. Don't say it here.

well like I said, My intention was not to hurt anyone. My intention was to deflect the suggestion that I hook up with AKPM, and turn it into a joke, which is something I might attempt to do in real life, to someone's face, although I almost never intend to be mean or hurt anyone.

Again, its a point of confusion for me because I use to take everything seriously and was constantly hurt by people saying things that they only meant in a friendly, joking, shit pitching way so I had to attempt to adjust my reaction.

Then, when I attempt the same thing, its terrible and mean.

I'm pretty sure that some of this revolves around the idea that women aren't suppose to give men shit...

[Foggy_Goggles]

^^^That's kinda what I'm saying. You can't control how other people feel. Out of context, slinging shit at people can elicit a feeling other than the one you intended. I'm not social sophisticated enough to walk the fine line between sharp wit and being an asshole so I'm learning to avoid those situations. It's not easy. I feel your pain.

[Tuckerman]

I think the lawyers here would advise against recreational outside nookie. You don't want soon to be exwife to find out about it, and you never know if she has spies. Scorned woman and all that.

I would never..........

[Danno]

then quit with the Vaguebooking.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

I didn't grow up in Moses Hell.

This was near a little town in the far northeast corner of Washington. Its got all the redneck, ignorant rural town issues, but also plenty of goodness.

Metaline Falls or Ione?

[mtngirl79]

oh, and I don't think giving a girl a fish is really that terrible of a thing to do if its fresh caught and she likes fish and can cook fish. I don't like most fish, even, but I would see the good gesture of it.

Patrick was probably hoping they could cook it and eat it together, and the girl probably wasn't into him at all, and that's why it flopped.

I bet if you brought a big nice salmon or whatever fish over to a girl who was into you, or considering being into you it would go over well.

Fresh caught fish is expensive.

Or maybe in Alaska fishes just jump out of the water into the grocery store cooler and thus are cheap...?

[Rontele]

illeagle

[Bromontana]

Patrick was probably hoping they could cook it and eat it together, and the girl probably wasn't into him at all, and that's why it flopped.

making me chuckle

[MagnificentUnicorn]

I think Patrick posted some of the things he did in part because people would laugh. I remember him posting as far back as 2004 on Ttips.

[KQ]

Metaline Falls

Talk about "the land that time forgot". Spent a night there at the Washington Hotel on my way to Fernie once. Growing up there would def. be interesting.

[Rontele]

People also forget that Patrick essentially joined this board really young. He got skewered for doing some really stupid shit, notwithstanding that he was in the prime age to do said stupid shit.

[mtngirl79]

Metaline Falls or Ione?

I'm not telling. Could be Elk. Could be Delkena or Usk or Blueside or Tiger or Metaline or Metaline Falls or Ione or Selkerk or Newport or Cusick

[mtngirl79]

FERNIE FERNIE!!!!

[mtngirl79]

Or Oldtown. Old town is technically in Idaho, but not really.

[Danno]

well worn but relevant

[mtngirl79]

KQ, you should go up there for the Poker Paddle.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

My great grandparents homesteaded between Ione and Metaline and the other set between Ione and Newport. On my grandmother's side they lost everything in the Big Burn when grandma was 6. Grampa moved everyone to Snohomish to work for Weyerhauser during the Depression.