That really sucks.
Not your fault though.
And re: keeping cats inside at all times - I read all that stuff they tell you ant the vet and tried like hell for years. I had never LET my cat outside, but she's faster and sneakier than me and made it out on multiple occasions, followed by me searching for HOURS, trying to coax her out from under the deck, etc. And then she started tearing up the screen doors to get out. And then I realized that once I quit chasing her, all she wants is to lay on the railings of the back deck, or make these amazing leaps from the deck to the roof of the shed in the backyard where she can roll around and enjoy the sun. And she'll actually come back inside when I call her. Luckily she seems terrified of the street and won't even go in the front yard unless she's pressed up against the house. But the bottom line is that unless we never open a window or a door (even if there's a screen there), she's going to get out anyway, so I gave in and put a cat door in the screen to the back deck. And she's the happiest cat on earth, supervising her kingdom from the roof of the shed out back. I guess I could have her claws removed so she can't get through screens and keep her in the house, but that honestly seems worse than the chance of her getting run over. 
And so far the only thing she's killed in the 5 years she's been at this house are a couple of mice. Some indoors, some outdoors. Either way it's a good thing IMO.
I'd go talk to the mother again once she's had some time to calm down and ask if you could get her another cat.
Last edited by altagirl; 04-20-2005 at 11:55 AM.
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