
Originally Posted by
Jamespio
This doesn't make any sense to me.
Why am I not surprised?
It is just as likely that my kids share my behaviors, affinities and struggles because they learned them from me and the Mrs., as that those are somehow genetically pre-determined. Add to that the fact that they are growing up not only in your presence, but in largely the same culture you grew up in, maybe even in the same subcutlures, and even micro-cultures.
OK, then why did my son eschew teddy bears/soft toys in favor of trucks, trains and tools? Why did my daughter prefer dolls, etc to the trucks etc? Are these genetic or not? Neither kids was exposed to either except as toys.
There was no real reason for a number of my son's behaviors which I'd rather not go into, but they are consistent with some well known syndromes that my father exhibits.
My brother's adopted son has the same facial expressoins as my brother. Intersting anecdote, but no more.
That's kind of inconsistent to assert anecdotal information but then dismiss it. I'm not claiming mine is more than anecdotal.
What I do mean to point out is how my view has changed; being a parent has significantly changed my position on nuture vs. nature to weighting the nature a lot more. Your mulage may vary.
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