Ok, as a person who recently left the bus behind, I'll give you a bit of advice (really, its the advice I was given).
Stop worrying about it. The ladies can smell desperation from a mile off. The ladies that you should be interested will disappear from your sight as soon as they get a whiff. Ladies that aren't turned off by your desperation are ones that you should be running away from (they'll take your fragile little mind and use a sledge hammer on it's nutsack and then leave you in the emotional gutter).
It doesn't matter if it takes you forever to get laid. All it got me was really strong arms (and I'm almost ambidextrous). I survived and you will too.
But, most of all you've got to learn to resepect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, no one you meet will either. And the last and most important part of the whole equation is to never date or have sex with someone that you don't respect and who doesn't respect you. Violating that rule will only hurt you in the long run.
"if the city is visibly one of humankind's greatest achievements, its uncontrolled evolution also can lead to desecration of both nature and the human spirit."
-- Melvin G. Marcus 1979
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