Scary shit. Im glad you got her back.
concerning the expert thing:even UIAA Guides end up in Avalanches eventually.....you just have ski often enough. if you take only the slightest risk it can happen some day. which does't mean that it will happen if you take huge risks everytime. (bloody statistics). You can only make decisions and if your decision is wrong you have to bear the consequences. you can never be entirely safe if you ski in the backcountry. Im glad this time the consquences were only a good reminder to be careful out there.
Intense writeup btw.
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