letters from the ex.... save or trash?

KQ · 10-16-2003, 03:40 PM

You keep things? That's a thought but then what use is having a shredder?

Toss 'em - trust me. Nothing good can come from keeping them and you might just end up like someone I know who had to produce them in a court case for the entire world to see. Very embarrassing (it happens more often than you might think). *shudder*

**Pinner** · 10-16-2003, 03:42 PM

Originally posted by KQ
end up like someone I know who had to produce them in a court case for the entire world to see.

Were you defending or provoking?

**Cornholio** · 10-16-2003, 03:43 PM

One who says what everyone else is thinking.

**Cornholio** · 10-16-2003, 03:44 PM

(just kidding, ladies.)

**Dantheman** · 10-16-2003, 03:47 PM

Originally posted by flykdog
if i was in her situation i would keep sleeping with me no strings attached for years to come.

Hah!

**BakerBoy** · 10-16-2003, 04:20 PM

Originally posted by Dantheman
Hah!

^^^^ GIT SUM!

**Steven S. Dallas** · 10-16-2003, 04:40 PM

Originally posted by LCC
Do the classy thing...

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

**nachos supreme** · 10-16-2003, 04:45 PM

bin 'em mate.

**funkendrenchman** · 10-16-2003, 06:17 PM

Originally posted by jstead
58% says you need to post those pics. I think if you post the pics. you will get more insite as to what to do with the letters.

Now 66%... I wont read anymore of this thread until I see naked pics!

**Mustonen** · 10-16-2003, 07:49 PM

put it off until it's no longer an issue. until the proper course of action is obvious.

this time will come.

is there some pressing reason to make up your mind Right Now? if not...it's just paper.

**hop** · 10-16-2003, 07:58 PM

Originally posted by ArmchairExtreme
I hope that by "would like to be friends with her again someday" you mean you want to do her again sometime in the future when you see her at a wedding.

Remember, to insure "once more for old time's sake" action, you need only imply that you kept that stuff. You don't need to produce any evidence of it. Throw it away.

Funny you bring up the wedding. We were going to meet at her sister's wedding in Sept and discuss "us" after an ambiguous summer apart (coming after a sine-wave long distance spring, coming after a catastrophic winter together....enough drama but you get the point), but then a few weeks before it happened she told me not to bother and she brought her new boyfriend.

Even though there was a third option, I will never post the pics because that's just plain evil. But if you really need some nekked pics, let me point you to my sister at www.stonenudes.com. Just be sure to buy a calendar to support a starving artist!

Edit:
nevermind

**Ted Stryker** · 10-16-2003, 10:51 PM

keep 'em; the good ones at least. they'll make for good fun later. if the next gal is worth a shit, she'll be laughin with you.

however, if they invovle anyhting of which KQ was refering, then burn them now..

**CantDog** · 10-16-2003, 11:15 PM

Eww hop, you look at your sister naked

**hop** · 10-17-2003, 12:16 AM

I don't go out of my way to check her out, but I can't say I haven't seen her naked. And 11 months out of the year I'm looking at someone else! And even though I'm by no means a JONG, nobody else has posted naked pictures or even provided links to naked pictures of their sister that I can remember.

**Telenater** · 10-17-2003, 12:22 AM

Originally posted by hop
And even though I'm by no means a JONG, nobody else has posted naked pictures or even provided links to naked pictures of their sister that I can remember.

Chalk one up for Hop...

Hey, you going to be around the Tahoe area anytime this winter?

**Dr. Crash** · 10-17-2003, 12:52 AM

Save them and keep them somewhere where the next gf / wife (preferrably the latter) can find them and get pretty fucking mad at you for keeping pics of your ex after you've moved on and onto her.

drC

**ulty_guy** · 10-17-2003, 04:46 AM

SAVE THEM (if you're not married)- to remind yourself that all the stupid bliss is really all bullshit. it's great to go back and read them and think to yourself what a load of horse shit 99% of that stuff really is.

**Grange** · 10-17-2003, 09:09 AM

Toss the letters, keep the pictures. It's like tossing the bad memories (broken heart) and keeping the good ones (sex).

**Mountain Junkie** · 10-17-2003, 11:39 AM

Originally posted by hop
I don't go out of my way to check her out, but I can't say I haven't seen her naked. And 11 months out of the year I'm looking at someone else!

Yeah, but isn't that 1 month still a little weird? I think it would be a bit odd to see my sister naked on a calendar.

Anyway, which pic is your sister?

**KevinDineen** · 10-17-2003, 03:16 PM

Originally posted by mildbill.
trash them, but only after getting blacked out drunk, driving to her house, kicking the door in and giving her a piece of your mind.

Bill, we gotta hang sometime.

Trash the letters, save a few normal pics for nostagia mixed in a photo album with other shots so they're not conspicuous ex shots, hide the nudies somewhere for spank material. Burn 'em as soon as you get bored or meet someone else.

**bossass** · 10-17-2003, 03:36 PM

Post 'em here, then burn them. We'll hold on to them if you ever need them back.

**hop** · 10-17-2003, 08:09 PM

Well, the past few years I've moved around so much that I rarely am home for her month, so it's not been much of an issue!

Telenater...send me an email...Telepath and I will be in the tahoe area mid-jan.

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