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What's wrong with this photo...
http://www.tetongravity.com/forums/a...6&d=1416195325Watched some people skin up just lookers left of a ton of natural slides on the NW aspect up a Silvy today. We were super worried about them and I almost didn't want to watch because I was sure it would go. They skied away fine.
Saw the group later and it turns out it was friends of mine. I told them I was glad they were alright and they were super lucky that it didn't rip on them. The decision maker in the group wasn't present. I asked if they had seen the naturals that they were right under. "nope" "nope" were the answers.
I ran into the leader at the car and he seemed super defensive and yet could give me no solid answer as to why he chose to ski that slope. The part that is getting to me is that I was hoping to ski with that crew this year and now I am questioning all of their decision making. I also was running through rescue scenarios while I was watching them skin up and I am now pondering what my emotional reaction would be if I responded to a slide an unknown party triggered and dug up one of my friends. Fucking spooky.
Any thoughts/advice on how to confront others on their decision making process? I want to be direct enough that they know that their choice was reckless and irresponsible, yet I don't want to be so much of a dick that they don't listen to me because I'm a dick. I was going with the statement of "I like my friends alive".
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