Thanks again DJ!
Option 2 (pouring new around old) was in the works until it started to seem there might be appropriate adhesive products. The only issue would be aesthetic, as one side of the column is at the edge of the sidewalk, so the new and larger column would not be centered around the existing one. On one side would be a very thin new pour, though the rest of it would probably hold.
I'm still probably leaning toward at least trying the adhesive-glue-them-together option at this point. If it failed again I could always start over. Just seems like it's worth a try if I can find a product.
I've seen concrete epoxy advertised, and a few other rare things. Attempts to contact the local masonry supply for advice have so far not been answered.
https://www.amazon.com/Powers-AC100-...13105393&psc=1
https://www.grainger.com/product/53T...B&gclsrc=aw.ds
https://www.emisupply.com/catalog/si...B#.YG5AYi2cb4M