Originally Posted by
skiplct
Chutermom, It is truly hard to imagine how you could do that much damage falling only 18"; if you view powdork's fall, he was in a back flip many feet up in the air.. You broke 32 bones in your leg? Or other bones too? DO be grateful for Canadian insurance; my Aug 2012 tpfx has practically bankrupted me; over $25k in unpaid medical bills and climbing... But his injury helps t put things like debt into perspective... My mother has a great refrigerator magnet (The source of all nuggets of wisdom, you know) that says, "If money could solve your problem, you don't have a problem." And yes the stories here are hugely interesting, informative, educational, inspiring and encouraging and comforting all at once. For newbies, I advise NOT to avoid this site but immerse yourself in it; it's the only thing that will make you feel less alone. I had my hardware out 3 months ago (Jan 14) and struggling hugely with whether I did the right or not. Many (most ) ortho surgeons advised against it ("What do you want to do that for?? Your up and functioning! Why would you take the risk of ending up worse off, and go through all that new pain and suffering", etc etc. But 1 or 2 said, "It's a gamble and a toss up. You might end up better off, you might end up worse off, and you might end up not much different." Right now I think I'm in the worse off domain but I can't bitch and complain because it's a choice and a gamble I decided to take with my eyes open. (Well, not literally. Probably closed during surgery.) So MUCH of this injury is the head game: what you tell yourself about how you are going to cope with the new limitations and how you are going to go about re-creating alife that isn't like the one you had before, but may be still crafted into something worthwhile, just in a different way than you are used to.
And yes people do say, "It could have been worse": I did mine in a bicycling accident. And no, I wasn't wearing a helmet. So... Yeah, coulda been worse.