Originally Posted by
valli
If she works with kids or if you think you might want to have kids at some point, I would lean against the patellar autograft. My friend who had it said it really impairs her ability to get down and play with her kids.
On the morale and post-surgery stuff, the recovery really varies if it's a simple acl or if she also needs meniscus repair or if any of the other ligaments are damaged, which they can't always tell until they get in there. Ate'em and I had the same surgeon and both had multiple ligaments replaced and meniscus repair, and as he said, the rehab and pain level from that is much higher. If it's just the ACL you are often bearing weight and on the exercise bike within a week. Getting into a good pt clinic within a day or two post surgery is also really helpful, it can get swelling down faster and prevent scar tissue from forming in the joint. I don't know if you like to cook, but eating a healthy diet with lots of lean protein and fruits and vegetables can help post surgery. It can help bring down inflammation/swelling and counteract the negative effects of the narcotics. Also make sure she eats something before taking pain medication, it helps prevent nausea. If you don't cook make sure you find someplace with healthy takeout. A little high quality chocolate never hurts either.
As she's recovering try to notice the milestones she hits in the recovery process and think of things you can do together. At the beginning that might be Netflix and massaging her leg, but pretty soon she will probably be able to start swimming and light biking. Might be the summer to plan a beach vacation rather than an adventure one, if you like that sort of thing.