Originally Posted by
Mofro261
Vibes Abe, I am going thru the same w/ my dad right now. Couple days after labor day he collapsed, ended up in the hospital with sepsis and nearly died then.
They treated the sepsis but found he has metastatic melanoma in both lungs, 5cm tumor in the right and 13cm damn near the whole lung in the left. Oh and 3 lesions in the brain. The last 2 months have been really hard on my mom, he has needed a cane, full time O2, and he lost a good 20-30pounds. Was starting to speak slow and couldn't finish sentences, looked to be fading. He couldn't go up even to the Pass due to increased breathing issues.
Finally last week things turned a corner after the third or forth round of Keytruda, and after 3 days of treatment wife a "Gamma knife" to target the lesions in his brain. Color returned to his face, he is off the O2 and was sounding much more normal, massive turn around but he has a long way to go still.
And of course while that's going on my MIL's health declined and she passed from heart failure a few weeks ago. Worse still, my 62 yro SIL's dementia is now so severe she is going into a full-time care facility and she probably has 12-18months left. Been kind of hard to even think about ski season approaching.
Call me if you need anything or just need to vent.