Source? Was watching the ABCNews live on youtube, but it's like MTT says. Lots of warmongering talking heads. They say Kyiv getting bombed, but the live shot behind them shows a normal looking city, no flashes in the sky. (That doesn't mean it's not being bombed, but it sure doesn't look like Baghdad)
I'm not doubting you, I'm looking for an intelligent source.
On the "it's the west's fault" I found this lecture from 8 years ago. John Mearsheimer makes that argument
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JrMiSQAGOS4
The basic argument is Putin's afraid of NATO, and we don't listen. He goes into a lot more detail, including some Ukraine background and support for some of Putin's complaints. Not that it justifies anything, more a Machiavellian explanation, and some understanding how Putin sees things. It's worth a watch.