Originally Posted by
alpinevibes
Checking in from a parallel universe: my twin boys just turned 5 a few weeks ago. We flew to ORD-BCN this summer and they've done quite a few longer flights previously, most originating from Aspen with transits through bigger hubs. My takeaways:
- We try to give the boys equity and decision making power in the process of travel. We let them pack their own backpacks with a few each of toys, snacks, lovies and clothes to bring on the plane. They have their own kid headphones for ipad/movies. They carry it and they manage when they play with stuff, within reason. Let them choose their meal options, etc. We have them pack jammies to change into once it's after dinner and time to start moving towards rest/sleep.
- Bring some surprises: small toys and treats/snacks to change the dynamic if things start going south
- audio books: our boys love audio books and will sit engrossed with them for hours. Big win on flights and a nice change from screens.
- Movies/i-Pad: we have about 2-4 hours of screen time a month for the boys at home, but we allow whatever works once they're on the plane
- Sleep: Heading to Europe, we've found it helps to have them be/end up tired so they fall asleep and "sleep" once you get to your destination, versus working hard to keep them on their current schedule, while flying, by forcing/fighting sleep. We've used melatonin for sure to help some sleep, but also kinda let them fall asleep when they fall asleep. The first overnight sleep and morning wakeup in Europe is hard for everyone, but you just need to set a reasonable alarm time and stick to it. The second morning is still hard, but by the third you're good. The return flights are a different story and I would use melatonin.
- Boarding: we always wait till late in the boarding process if possible and try to keep our carry-on's limited and manageable for intl flights. Let the kids play and run around a bit before the flight.