DOOD. Just ten more months until I can line you up with an unending supply of Swedish mingers in La Grave.
Stay strong, hit the gym and lay off the wacky stuhlpille.
Printable View
DOOD. Just ten more months until I can line you up with an unending supply of Swedish mingers in La Grave.
Stay strong, hit the gym and lay off the wacky stuhlpille.
On the lighter side...........for a second there I thought this said You deserve a better liar and cheaterQuote:
Originally posted by snowsprite
You deserve better than a liar and a cheater.
Sprite
Haaa....I did too for a second. On a serious note...the hardest part of all this is understanding why people cheat. An earlier post stated something that I was thinking...if you are unhappy enough to hook up with someone else, why are you in the relationship in the first place???? It can't be just sex, cuz presumably if you are in a relationship you have easy access to it. I have just never understood this phenomenon.Quote:
Originally posted by FreakofSnow
On the lighter side...........for a second there I thought this said You deserve a better liar and cheater
A priceless pearl of wisdom.Quote:
Originally posted by Beaver
The bus generally runs you over as it stops to pick you up.
There is always room, get on the bus.
We're all here to help
It's a respect thing. Like Lego skier said (he's a wise dude)...why can't people just level w/ each other when it's not working out?
People should at least have the respect for their partner to be honest. It may hurt to hear that your partner wants to be with someone else, but sneaking and lying hurts more in the end.
Sprite
Sorry Viva but this is BULLSHIT! Girls are smarter than that. Let me break it down. It sounds like truth is a great guy and his GF would never admit to cheating on him face to face, because in the back of her mind she knows that if she did she would never see him again! So if she needed to crawl back she could.Quote:
Originally posted by Viva
But your intuition told you something was wrong, she was becoming distant so something was up. If it mattered then you should have forced the issue with her directly. Further evasion and whatever else on her part would have been telling.
Truth absolutly did the correct thing by invading her privacy. He was protecting HIMSELF and this is what matters most.
Truth, it will hurt for a long time, just remember not to hold this against all females.
There are two ways to pick yourself up from this.
A. Put on a suit. Head to Gibson's pick up a Pro. Take her to some place in the West Loop. Get a one nighter at one of the Mag Mile hotels. Give her a good rodgering. Maybe a wake up and hit the road. you'll be cleansed.
B. Grab 3-5 best friends. hit Twin Anchors. Getting your Rib on should help. Then you have two options. bang a right head to Stanley's, and up lincoln to prey on some unsuspecting Big 10 ladies. or head left and head through old town to the Gold Coast.
Crazy Horse is also a decent option.
You're saying that guys are suckers.Quote:
Originally posted by TheDingleberry
Sorry Viva but this is BULLSHIT! Girls are smarter than that.
Wow. the EXACT same thing happened to me.Quote:
Originally posted by truth
Yeah, I felt pretty pathetic reading it, but my intuition is usually spot on. The irony is that I bought her the leather bound journal.
FYI, It's not a good idea to keep a written record of your lies and misdeeds.
I still don't know if it was the right way to handle things; fact is, it doesn't really matter.
The ton-of-bricks-smashing-you-on-the-head feeling goes away, dood. I know you can't see it now, but things get better.
Sorry about your rough week.
Nope. I am saying that females are evil and scandalous and their word should never be trusted.Quote:
Originally posted by Viva
You're saying that guys are suckers.
Poor guy.Quote:
Originally posted by TheDingleberry
Nope. I am saying that females are evil and scandalous and their word should never be trusted.
Sorry to hear it truth. Makes you wonder how a speices that looks so amazing can suck so much. (No offense to the female mags out there)
Yeah so if you can' t tell it's happened to me too!
Many have you have made assumptions in this thread that are not entirely accurate. I have no intention of getting into the details so give it a rest. The advice is appreciated, I guess I just needed to share. Thanks for listening, and more so for caring. See ya in the white room.
Hope the wounds heal quickly and you get back in the saddle.Quote:
Originally posted by Karl Stall
Remember what you told me a week ago: life is bootiful.
<tire screech>Quote:
Originally posted by Telephil
Nate?
Yeah, I gotcha.
All aboard, welcome to the bus. Beer's in the Kegerator, Hard A on the dashboard, green leafy substance at the back of the bus.
Newest arrival gets to pick the tunes and the drinking game.
Anybody getting off the bus had better do so now, because my foot is on the gas and ready to go.
Sorry, Rev and Truth, here's hoping that you don't spend too much time on the bus (but also don't spend too little).
Meh - Pain's for sharin':
My HS sweetie & I, together for 4.5 years ~ Well, she'd been documenting her exploits in letters to her friend (who also happened to be a friend of MINE). Well, one day the friend just plain got tired of watching this woman shit all over me..I was so in love with that girl, I couldn't begin to explain...Anyways, the friend called me up one day & asked me to swing by, there was something important she wanted to talk to me about...Got there, she hands me an envelope with like 5 letters in it & tells me it's something I'm gonna want to read alone...
Not sure I've ever been the same....
Feelin' yo pain, mang.
No real words of wisdom ~ But I will tip one back for ya tonite.
I'm buying you a beer.Quote:
Originally posted by TheDingleberry
Nope. I am saying that females are evil and scandalous and their word should never be trusted.
Quote:
Originally posted by Beaver
Poor guy.
Don't feel sorry for him, SUCKER!
Lesson learned here, don't buy diary/journal for partner to keep lies in.
Truth, sorry about the bus. Keep on trucking.
<Mr. Busdriver>Sorry about the slow response earlier, my responsible other personality was off at a buisness meeting ensuring that the pay check that allows my skiing habit to exist continued for the forseeable future</Mr. Busfucker>
The destruction of illusions and rending of hearts is something that all of us must go through to appreciate the human condition.
While I can't claim any experience with love being returned, I do have some with having my heart dashed out upon the rocks (and trampled on with cleats).
It seems to me that it's better to have a sharp stab of pain rather than the slow agony of a thousand minor cuts before succumbing to the inevitable.
You got problems in your life of love
You got a broken heart
She's double dealin' with your best friend
That's when the teardrops start - fella
Pick up the phone
I'm here alone
Or make a social call
Come right in
Forget about her
We'll have ourselves a ball
AC/DC always helps. Feel better soon Truth.
No worries, Nate. I'm not actually on the bus right now, for what it's worth. But I'm no stranger to it and I gots nothing but love for those who are unwillingly run over.Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Busdriver
<tire screech>
Sorry, Rev and Truth, here's hoping that you don't spend too much time on the bus (but also don't spend too little).
Backatcha...the both of you.Quote:
Originally posted by The Reverend Floater
No worries, Nate. I'm not actually on the bus right now, for what it's worth. But I'm no stranger to it and I gots nothing but love for those who are unwillingly run over.
Is this bus that everyone speaks of the one at the end of "Dumb and Dumber"? I want on that bus.