i hear ya. tough stuff for sure.
so i assume your daughter rides, right? is it just our family that is always encountering sketchy? shitty people in the horse world/ turnover rate on trainers is pretty bad for my sis who is actually one of the more agreeable people i have ever known, she has just worked with some miserable cunts for trainers. she has one she really likes now but the lady's husband murdered his ex-wife and got off. nice guy but sketchy as fuck.