The stoke vs. antistoke debate has an analogue in particle physics. Stoke could be considered equivalent to matter, while antistoke equivalent to antimatter. Everyone here should embrace both, just as the universe embraces both. Curiously, the universe is biased to matter (see baryon asymmetry http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baryon_asymmetry) much like TGR is biased to stoke.
Just trying to put this in some sort of metaphysical context for those of you that feel the need to put someone on ignore for fear you might get sucked into the black hole of butthurt.
