Take my advice with a grain of salt, as I'm a bit of a lost soul myself :rolleyes2 . I've attended three different schools in three different semesters, and am currently taking a semester off to work and hopefully figure out what I should really be doing (which won't necessarily include school, time will tell.) If you're curious, I attended Wesleyan University in CT and played football in Fall '04 (too many hippies and nuts for me), attended Wentworth Institute of Technology in Boston Spring '05 for Construction Management (yes I know big change but cool program), and University of Georgia Fall '05. Started off with a 3.2 at Wesleyan, and Dean's List at WIT and UGA. So, with that said picking a school is something I've had some experience (and failures) with.
Anyways, I wouldn't personally consider any school to be "too big." Especially considering the types of courses you'll be taking, you'll probably see the same faces on a regular basis making it easier to meet people. Partying, as others have said, is what you make of it. When I was at UGA I partied far less than I did at home, and I was working as a bouncer in downtown Athens and around that whole scene constantly, but never really got into it. Only you can know what type of person you are...but judging from what you've said it seems that UMass is jumping out at you because it is close to home and the girlfriend is here, and it makes the decision that much easier...it all seems familiar to you, etc. I personally think basing your decision on those factors is a mistake. Hopefully you've given the cost of attending these different schools serious consideration, as UMass will obviously be a bargain in comparison to the others. I almost ended up transferring to Boulder from Wesleyan, and actually had flown out to visit and everything until getting my financial aid package with a big zero...in other words, pretty damn expensive (Wesleyan gave me a lot of $$). I'm rambling so I'll wrap it up, but I say if UPS seems to be your number one choice then go for it. I don't know how many (if any) you've visited, but it's something you really need to do (especially while everyone is still on campus). And lastly if you screw up making your choice I'm proof that transferring isn't too difficult to do.
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Originally Posted by skatecow45