I'd vote for 3 Vallees. I've stayed in Mottaret (just up the road from Meribel) and Courchevel 1850 and found them ok. Courchavel 1850 was full of rich Russians lol and the food is rather expensive. Ticks all the boxes for the OP imo!
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