About to turn 50 and am too tired to continue
A few things have been really bothering me as I’ve approached and now have passed turning 50 a few weeks ago:
-Time is going so fucking fast. I feel like life is so busy that my wife and I rarely have a moment to just be in the moment. And that’s with one kid who’s now 12.
-Our girl is growing up so fast and it freaks me out that she’s a teenager in a few months. Then high school then college. It’s all so close suddenly. It’s also so hard to deal with her pushing us away after 12 years of being buddy buddy. I feel like the time is slipping too fast.
-Life is so expensive and we live pretty simply. But it feels like even with savings, we’re never going to feel comfortable enough to retire given the way the world is now and in the foreseeable future. The money we’re both making now I thought would have been plenty to live on and save with but that thought from a decade ago has become more and more unrealistic. It really gets me depressed and I’ve been feeling so burnout lately.
-I get anxiety whenever we do something that is special to me (skiing, hiking, biking) because I feel like time as a whole family is slipping by so fast, and that each time we do something like that, has to be perfect and memorable. That isn’t a good thing.
About to turn 50 and am too tired to continue
Live in the moment as best possible. Somewhere the other day I read someone say that instead of worrying about how you’re not 20 or 30 years younger anymore, try imagining you were actually 80 and got to go back to being 50
Things def got faster at 50. And if you think the kid thing has gone fast so far, it’s about to move into light speed w middle and highschool.
So, deep breath. Savor those moments now whatever they are and be present much as possible. I feel ya though, It’s def anxiety producing
About to turn 50 and am too tired to continue
Wow that MTM dude broke the cunt meter w his comment
About to turn 50 and am too tired to continue
Buzz literally fuck those guys. You are above the assholes. Stay strong. I appreciate your posts here.