Can you all talk me off the cliff again. All right I am embracing the “just tools” sentiment. Just accidentally broke a Christmas platter from a set gifted by my mom just before dying of cancer. Grumbled a bit but whatever.
I got a real problem now though. Roofs fucking leaking. Just discovered today by wife, I was on the hill. Water on the ceiling of the first story.
We delayed our annual roof cleaning and maintenance so our neighbors could finally get off their wallets and cut the huge cedar trees that were trying to eat our house. We were being patient because we like these neighbors. They are good people. It was the mega asshole owner before them that planted these fucking trees because they were fast growing and he didn’t like me and knew he would be dead before they caused him any trouble. He’s dead now. So we get the roofers scheduled. They are coming 12/30. Now here’s the real kicker. Go into the attic (it’s been less than a year since I was up there) and sure as shit we got black and wet sheeting. So it’s not going to just be a shingle or two out of place.
Other neighbors just had their roof done too and the others across the street. Same company all roofed them originally. All the same shingles cause HOA going to HOA. All supposed to be 30year. None made it to 20.
So chatted with the contractor while they were on the neighbor’s job and he tells me all of his guys hope we don’t hire them to roof our place. It’s steep, it’s two-story, it’s hipped, it has lots of valleys.
Just had a good talk with wife. We know it’s just stuff and we will burn our savings we will get it fixed. Will call tomorrow and see if they can come earlier than scheduled.
Irony. Talked to my dad tonight too. He is having car troubles and says to me “everything I touch turns to shit.”
My conclusions, being a first gen middle class is difficult because we don’t know what we don’t know. We have to build the network. We have to learn who is the “right guy” for each job. We can’t just get help from our folks. Anyone there with us, keep battling. Anyone out there taking care of eod your people and helping them do life, good on you.
Anyway the kids and pets are healthy. I hope you all are having a merry holiday season.