Ok I started skiing as an adult and am now in my late 30's. I ski about 20 times per year with my family in Vermont. I am so frustrated that I can't get over my fear of speed! I am not a wimpy person either! I probably go as fast, maybe a little slower than most guys I see. But I ski with my brother and teenage boys and want to keep up. I am 5'8" and ski 165's. Would a little longer ski help? Any suggestions?