Ok, here's my progress report, since I finally have something to report. I got my 4/3 wetsuit from grubbers - in really great condition except for the tiniest tear where the 4 meets the 3. I really appreciate the maggot hookup. I took the suit to Bird's Surf Shed, not too far from where I live, where Bird himself handed me the glue and coached me through the repair - no charge. What an awesome cool guy in a quonset hut.
He's got racks of used boards so I asked him what he had in the 9'ish range. He looks me up and down and goes all the way to the back where he pulls out this aqua board with a long single fin. So pretty. 9'2" I wonder if this guy is a mind reader. Exactly the overall shape I was looking for, so thankful now that I rode a variety of boards last summer and got a little bit of an eye for what I wanted. $300. But I didn't want to make an impulse purchase so I took off to think it over. We were joking that if somebody else got it then it just wasn't meant to be mine. I came back in the morning two days later and I guess I snaked it out from some guy that looked at it the day before. Well, I saw it first and it's a girly color anyway.
So I have my first beautiful surfboard, mine all mine. But I don't know anybody around here, nobody to go out in the ocean with me. And I'm so busy trying to get settled in here in San Diego. My son came to visit for a month, back from Korea, and he got all my attention. I've been working out a LOT, with him I did hill sprints, weight lifting, hiking, plenty of stuff. After he left I joined OB crossfit. I'm being a workout junkie and doing some cool stuff like running around barefoot in Mission Trails. I also had to get a regular job and I'm starting a software company right now, writing code again for the first time in ten years. Everything is distracting me from actually getting in the ocean.
I took my board into the swimming pool just to see how it floated and this lady came out on the balcony to ask about it. I told her about my limited experience surfing in Maui and she was just so scared, gripped, even to hear about it. My mom has been the same way, acting like I'm gonna go out and get myself killed. Never mind that I grew up swimming alone at the beach and sailing too and I really do have a LOT of general experience adventuring in the wilderness. All in all there was just a ton of negative energy floating around me, mentally holding me back. But I went down to Sunset Cliffs every couple of days at different tides, studied the surf, pretended I was walking down the stairs with a board, waded repeatedly in and out of the water, and especially watched everyone get in and out with their boards. Mulled it over.
Then my very good friend and fellow maggot, Burnhard, comes to visit. That boy isn't afraid of anything and he's a hell of an athlete and he came to surf, not procrastinate. He brought along another buddy that is really not a surfer but wanted to try it out. So I take them up to La Jolla to get 10 foot soft tops and we're out in the easy water at La Jolla Shores. All day long!!! My first paddle for a wave I nosed dived, ok, I can fix that. Second try I'm up and surfing!!! And this board will turn too. I can really play! Ah so fun, so happy. Of course I got awfully tired and eventually would just walk out through the white and hop on in time to catch a wave - it's really shallow there. I saw a ray and a small shark in the clear water. Beautiful. I messed around a lot inside, playing with my new toy, riding on my knees, getting intimate. In the afternoon it got so flat that I couldn't get enough momentum to stand up any more, so I know the minumum wave size.
His buddy left for Colorado that night and I took Burnhard to Tourmaline the next day. It was like 2-3 foot and solid bodies out there, hordes of people at 10am on a Friday morning. My arms were pretty much gone, but I got outside and paddled in for my first wave. I was up and riding so easy, first try. I think it's a combination of the board and the wave, a sweet spot. I loved the feel, the energy, of the wave there, it was just right for me and I got a REALLY long ride. Got back outside and pretty much just layed around, watching and enjoying the day. Rode a couple more and had a collision. There were so many people that going across the line was a ridiulous propostition.
The next day, Saturday, we gave it a rest and hiked around at Torrey Pines. I had taken him over to look at Sunset Cliffs on the first day and told him I was really chicken about paddling out there, so of course he got fixated on the idea. Said it was just like the cliffs he enjoyed as a kid on summer vacation, I think to Sicely. So Sunday morning we got out early, by 7am, and put in at the stairs at low tide. I was really awkward, but I got in and I got out without falling on my @ss and that's that. Proud of myself for managing a reef break below the cliffs in California for the first time. I caught my first wave out there on south Garbage and had a nice ride. The problem is that I need to learn how to surf across the line. When I turned around to paddle back out I started getting slammed by white water, the waves were at 3-4 foot which is too big for me anyway and I don't know how to turtle. And I'm getting pushed in towards the shallow rocks so I had to FREAKING PADDLE OUT NOW. Holy Sh!t. The thing is, if you can surf across the line there you can just paddle back out the channel and not even get your hair wet. I got so much water up my nose that I pretty much rolled along on my belly with some swells after that, just looking around me and getting a feel for the place. I did have one real ride at Sunset Cliffs though, so I'm claiming it.
And that's all I've got, but it was pretty good all in all. Broke through the mental barrier of getting out there. On Maui I stared at the water for the first month too, completely sketched out about the coral 12" under the surface, but finally ended up surfing several times a week for the rest of the summer. So all's well that ends well.
And I need a plan going forward. Writing all this out makes me understand that I need to spend some days at Tourmaline, which we've talked about on this forum already. Maybe if I get out midweek at first light I'll have some real estate to myself. I really need to learn how to do an angled takeoff and how to surf down the line instead of just getting pushed into shore by the white. I need to learn how to turtle and I need to get my arms even stronger, although I'm already better than last year, or maybe just more clever. Finally I need to just sack up and head out alone, well it's not alone really, but with strangers. Everyone's been totally nice and friendly so far. I got spoiled in Hawaii last year, had friends on the beach which makes it so much easier to get out.
Would appreciate everyone's thoughts. You guys have been such a great resource. Please help me keep the momentum going, surfing is so much fun. I'll try to get a pic up of my board really quick, for you all to admire. :)