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  • Kenny Satch
    pitter patter
    • Nov 2011
    • 4472

    #1

    Fuck Alzheimers

    My wife Maria is only 54 and was diagnosed almost 2 years ago with Alzheimers.

    Suffice to say our world has been turned upside down and then some.

    It's been a shit show of worry, balling my eyes out and frustration. To see the sharpest tool in the shred go from always being on top of things to needing help with almost everything is heartbreaking. It happened that fast although I'm told it starts years prior. Usually when this happens at a young age life expectancy isn't long. I was told 6 to 10 years. Fuck that.

    I try not to give up hope but that's in short supply right now because she's getting worse.

    Therefore FUCK ALZHEIMERS
    riser4 - Ignore me! Please!

    Kenny Satch - With pleasure
  • JimmyCarter
    Registered User
    • Jan 2008
    • 11060

    #2
    Ahh shit, sorry to hear that.

    FUCK ALZHEIMERS

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    • Danno
      Agent of Tang
      • Sep 2005
      • 35039

      #3
      Fuck. Sorry to hear. It's an evil disease. My ex-MIL has it and it's slowly heartbreaking.
      "fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
      "She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
      "everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy

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      • berko
        Largest of the small ones
        • May 2004
        • 1635

        #4
        Kenny, I wish I had something positive to say here. Its a brutal disease that robs people of their dignity and puts huge strain on their caretakers and loved ones. So sorry to hear. 54 is way, way too young.
        In with the 9.

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        • hawkgt
          snow please
          • Jan 2008
          • 4824

          #5
          dam, hang in Kenny, tough road.

          FUCK ALZHEIMERS

          My wife use to solely nurse alzheimers patients, she really enjoyed it and threw herself into the job of providing quality care. Then family was diagnosed, it was her kryptonite.
          "something witty and relative to todays issues"

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          • riser4
            sudo su -
            • Dec 2012
            • 27119

            #6
            Fuck. Damn. Fuck. Shit. Fuck.
            I see hydraulic turtles.

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            • Bunion 2020
              Registered User
              • Dec 2004
              • 24187

              #7
              Terrible news, Sorry to hear it and yes, FUCK Alzheimers.
              I have been in this State for 30 years and I am willing to admit that I am part of the problem.

              "Happiest years of my life were earning < $8.00 and hour, collecting unemployment every spring and fall, no car, no debt and no responsibilities. 1984-1990 Park City UT"

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              • Mofro261
                Obstinate Oldskooligan
                • Jan 2006
                • 6692

                #8
                Feel for you Kenny.

                My SIL has always been the loudest one in the room and the center of attention per her personality, just gregarious and vivacious. Then we noticed an abrupt change in behavior between visits a year ago July to October with a couple WTF??? moments.

                She's now much more quiet and reserved, has developed real difficulty with directions. She walked into the kitchen and asked where the fridge was... um where it's always been, right there in front of you? All of a sudden the obvious is not so obvious.

                She was diagnosed this Spring with Lewy Body and also given that ~10yrs prognosis, she's barely 60. Names and faces are OK but so much of what made her who she was is altered.

                My Mrs is a mess over it and I wanna cry just thinking about it.

                Fuck All Dementia.

                Move upside and let the man go through...

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                • Harry
                  is training for Alpental
                  • Jan 2008
                  • 15541

                  #9
                  Very sorry to hear this Kenny.


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                  "Zee damn fat skis are ruining zee piste !" -Oscar Schevlin

                  "Hike up your skirt and grow a dick you fucking crybaby" -what Bunion said to Harry at the top of The Headwaters

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                  • skaredshtles
                    Registered User
                    • Dec 2016
                    • 15357

                    #10
                    Goddammit.

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                    • ex-powderbroker
                      expert in residence
                      • Sep 1999
                      • 17173

                      #11
                      dammit to hell... sounds like the worst thing in the world.

                      thinking of you, kenny.
                      j'ai des grands instants de lucididididididididi

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                      • Mazderati
                        On to a five-year plan
                        • Dec 2009
                        • 11022

                        #12
                        Really sorry to hear, Kenny. FUCK ALZHEIMER'S and every other type of dementia.

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                        • Buster Highmen
                          Used Register
                          • Sep 2001
                          • 28762

                          #13
                          >>hugs<< K.
                          I think I've oozed over my experience with dementia enough here.

                          But there are various things to try. There's lots of quacks out there, but there's some studies that link various forms of dementia to diet.
                          https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6918878/ .


                          There's a Ted talk on youtube where a doctor is able to reduce the effects of her husband's dementia by diet change.
                          (edit)

                          Anyway, I'm pulling for you, we're all in this together.
                          Merde De Glace On the Freak When Ski
                          >>>200 cm Black Bamboo Sidewalled DPS Lotus 120 : Best Skis Ever <<<

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                          • GiBo
                            Paramarker
                            • Sep 2008
                            • 3445

                            #14
                            That's horrible, man. Really sorry you guys have to go though that. HS buddy has early onset and it's just the worst disease. Serious vibes to you and your family.

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                            • dan_pdx
                              First assistant schmuck
                              • Feb 2008
                              • 3602

                              #15
                              I'm so sorry to hear that Kenny. My mother was diagnosed about four years ago and I can't find the words to describe the experience for her and for us. It's been the hardest thing I've ever gone through. We have taken some heart that although she struggles with recall (she routinely asks me if I live close to my parents, have siblings, etc.), her personality hasn't changed, and we're still able to play music together (badly, in my case).

                              On my last visit (the one where I blocked their pocket door with toggle bolts when installing a new towel bar, I bitched about it on a different thread), my dad was trying to get rid of some extra chocolate and asked "Dan, do you and Mrs PDX eat chocolate?" I looked at him deadpan and said "exclusively." My mom got a good laugh out of that, just like she would have before her diagnosis. We try to focus on the bright moments, because there aren't as many as there used to be.

                              Fuck Alzheimer's with a flaming chainsaw.

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