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Thread: The Midlife Club
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03-24-2024, 08:33 PM #51
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03-24-2024, 09:50 PM #52
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03-24-2024, 10:00 PM #53
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03-25-2024, 07:37 AM #54
^^^this
I had cancer last year. Life looks different now.
But yeah, I too need a project of some sort regardless. I need to be constantly learning or I get bored. Right now I’m building a snowcat ground up, 100% DIY. It’s hard, slow process but occupies my mind appropriately.
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03-25-2024, 08:04 AM #55
Early 40's, actually loving things now that the kids are out of the super young stage. Sucking at a bunch of stuff, but getting back into good shape and doing fun things with everyone.
I think it just feels worse as there's very little "new" as compared to younger days. By this point, you probably have a level of expertise in something, so seeing it done badly or fighting the same fight for the 1000th time feels a lot worse than the first 100 or so times you dealt with it. Similarly, you see new things with more of an eye of skepticism given how many have burned you in the past. Recovery is harder. Things hurt. The easy thing is to stop trying quite so hard to protect yourself, but by the same token you now have the skills to pursue things more safely and productively.
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03-25-2024, 08:23 AM #56
Always like hearing about your DIY projects.
I’ve always tried to be involved in some sort of community non profit or informal group that helps others. My grandfather was a big golfer—definitely a main interest during retirement—but I’ll always remember him as the guy who in his 90s (living alone by then) would volunteer his time at the retirement home occasionally playing board games or taking people for a walk or whatever.Know of a pair of Fischer Ranger 107Ti 189s (new or used) for sale? PM me.
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03-25-2024, 10:59 AM #57
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03-25-2024, 11:57 AM #58Registered User
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03-25-2024, 12:02 PM #59
What's our vector, Victor?
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03-25-2024, 12:21 PM #60Registered User
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You know, on the subject, that pilot that tried to crash the plane a while back? I totally felt for him. The amount of unnecessary stress that job puts on pilots before they even sit down in the cockpit is fucking crazy.
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03-25-2024, 12:34 PM #61
Make everyone"s you interact with day better thats a good challenge & cheaper than new gear or car.
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I don't know if this suggestion is way off but volunteering somewhere with a good cause can help scratch the itch. My business was going through a rough patch a few years ago so I joined a local SAR/MRA unit. Packing injured people out of the woods, searching for lost folks and seeing the families affected can provide a little dose of healthy perspective. I guess it also alleviates some guilt by putting skills and piles of gear to use in a less selfish endeavor than just climbing and skiing. I'm also consistently humbled by the unit members that don't hesitate to head out on missions in any weather and any time of day or night. Some pretty good folks there.
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03-25-2024, 12:35 PM #63
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03-25-2024, 12:39 PM #64Registered User
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IMO when you retire if you can afford it do something entirely different, I have never touched another computer for money since leaving Big Blue and i couldn't really cuz after 30 yrs I was so fucked up. I did some trouble shooting on GF's computer and lost my shit when she didn't follow instructions clearly a PTSD moment " I told you to do XYZ and you didnt !!!@@#% do it ! " well it didnt fix it anyway sez she, well that wasnt the point we try this and this in this logical order to arrive at a fix but it was clear I should do something else
Doing something else is not gona make you feel young again but it could make you feel interested and if you don't need the money its nice being able to say fuck you any time you want. Note that when you can say fuck you any time you want you don't actualy have to say fuck-you instead just don't take the fucked-up jobLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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03-25-2024, 12:46 PM #65
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03-25-2024, 01:08 PM #66Registered User
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03-25-2024, 01:09 PM #67Registered User
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03-25-2024, 01:24 PM #68
Life's what you make it
Celebrate it
Anticipate it
Yesterday's faded
Nothing can change it
Life's what you make it
Move upside and let the man go through...
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03-25-2024, 02:06 PM #69
Not that I'm aware of. I've heard (so grain of salt) that he claimed to have taken them the day before, so that would be beyond the detection window of a drug test. Either way, in my not medical opinion, his mental health issues were probably always there under the surface.
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03-25-2024, 02:14 PM #70Registered User
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Lee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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03-25-2024, 02:16 PM #71
Plus 1 on volunteering. I'm not SAR material but working with a local food bank/food instability org has been both humbling and inspiring.
Sent from my SM-S928U1 using Tapatalk"All God does is watch us and kill us when we get boring. We must never, ever be boring."
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03-25-2024, 06:05 PM #72
You guys are doing it all wrong. Do what those before us did; go buy a Corvette.
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03-25-2024, 06:53 PM #73
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03-25-2024, 07:39 PM #74
Honestly though:
1. Impossibly hard and you will never be satisfied, but always want to improve, just like skiing/biking/paddling hard whitewater/whatever.
2. But basically zero chance of catastrophic injury.
3. And you can spend hours, days, weeks, etc. with good buddies and, if you're really lucky, family.
4. Go cool places.
5. Objectively kick friend/family ass for small but proud amounts of money.
6. Do it until you can barely stand up.
Seems pretty good.
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03-25-2024, 07:55 PM #75Registered User
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at the local golf course i went for a drink after biking, the old people were all smoking ( illegaly ) and in visibly bad shape, outside but too lazy to walk away from the building so still under the patio awning, these were not my people, I havent been back
gona die from self inflicted causesLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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